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How would you describe your gender

Posted by Llama_legss

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Many people experience gender is many diffrent ways and I and most likly other people too would like to see how people can express and show their gender to others. I'm Nonbinary Woman/Transfem or Girlby/Femby. 


I will describe my Idenity with the following...

Example 1:

Men----------Enby----0----woman (the 0 means where I place myself on this grapth and I know is not a great graph of the gender spectrum)

Example 2: 

I feel feminie/female and non binary at the same time that arn't two diffrent idenites as their are one that fuse together as one. 

Example 3:




The last one is a Joke but you get the point, just have fun explaning you gender Idenity to people and be creative. 


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Reply by sweetsugarbunnie

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I'm a gay lady but I've been told I could pass off as a dude. I usually present super femme and sometimes a bit tomboy-ish. Gender is interesting c: 


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Reply by Allo

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I love being a dude so much that I could never outright be trans but I'm definitely somewhere between genderfluid and bigender. I dunno, I don't really care much for labels so I don't really about it much.


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Reply by xXSHAY3Xx

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I'm a girl in the way people refer to boats as "she," and I'm a boy in the way people refer to random inanimate objects as "he."


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Reply by Angel

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For me, my gender is somewhere between a fox, the night sky, and a used scalpel. For whatever that's worth.


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Reply by JAM/CANDY/PIZZA/PESTO/SUSHI/NORI!

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somethimg like... "I NEED A BETTER LABEL!!!" and a shampoo "2,5 in one" (i am illusiogender (neurogender) and demifluid)


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Reply by luke 🌻

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my gender's when a male character's localised as a girl because they're too gay/feminine! like zoisite from sailor moon or gracie from animal crossing!


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Reply by saki

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i'm a girl, but I don't mind at all if i am called a boy or referred to with masculine pronouns, which happens very often because i play multiplayer games a lot and when i don't speak people just automatically assume I am a male lol


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Reply by Gremmie

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I like basing my gender after my fav characters lmao. While I keep the transmasc label cuz that’s truly what I believe I am, it’s nice to have some fun with it! So my current gender is *looks at notes* A HIPPIE?! 


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Reply by merce ♡

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my gender is just... no? where tf is it? does it exist? possibly, possibly not. somedays it exists vaguely, other days it doesn't :)))


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Reply by 4zzr43l

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my gender is best described by this video

no but fr if i could describe my gender in one word i think it would be "performance"

it's just such an abstract and nonsensical concept to me. i only present as male cuz it's the most generally accepted option that doesn't make me want to cry constantly. but i honestly don't really care much for it 


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Reply by pvnkcrow

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first ever post woah! but im asher, and my pronouns are he/they.

im not a guy. but im a guy. you know?? i saw someone describe it as male "honorifics". 

dude, bro, sir, etc.

but really wtf is gender idek. im a dude in the way a car is a woman. like its not really but its fun.




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Reply by adriel!!

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a genderfluid person that has been almost forced to pretend that it's a cis girl to manage his internal problems lol


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Reply by 𝗭𝗔𝗖𝗞𝗢

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I'm male in the same way that this plastic Halloween skeleton is a he/him



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Reply by 𝗭𝗔𝗖𝗞𝗢

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Unfortunately, I'm a reluctantly-male-conformist because I don't feel comfortable or confident enough in our current society to identify any other way. I go by he/him/his 95% of the time, and I mostly wear "male/masculine" clothing in my daily life. My outward presentation is something I'm settling with for convenience & security. It leads to lifelong confusion about how I actually identify on a personal level, but I'm still working on figuring that out. 

TLDR: sad guy with nail polish 


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Reply by HAL 👾🕊️

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I would describe it as a hue of navy blue with swirls of gold and white spreading through it. Gender identity wise I am transfemmasc.


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Reply by finnifenn

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i like to self describe as a femboy, or GNC trans guy, im transmasc and love crossdressing and wearing skirts and being cute :3

strictly use he/him pronouns. being called a good boy makes me melt


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Reply by PurpleCatCult

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im a girl the way tomato is a fruit


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Reply by AdairTrashart

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im nonbinary because its more convenient to explain to a lot of strangers not super familiar with all the nuances than :

"i never felt super connected to gender even when i was a kid (also why im pansexual)
and the only reason why i heavily gravitate girly things is because before i dived pretty heavily into alt stuff in general the only masc stuff i usually saw as a kid was boring minimalism stuff and toxic 2000s nerd/gym culture that still managed to somehow be the most boring version of it possible on top of the misogyny
(also when i was 3 i thought i was a boy for a couple days because my voice got very slightly lower and i still think about that)"

convenience is also why i still use she her pronouns so i can keep myself hidden in dangerous spaces without having to feel misgendered


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Reply by //EJ ⸙

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my gender identity fluctuates a lot but rn i'm leaning towards a nonbinary trans masc.. at the same time sometimes i feel like im a masc lesbian but i am still figuring things out. gender identity is a never ending journey....


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i have no idea LOL. like greta in gremlins 2. no gender with good boobs. i go by she/they but prefer they when it's not close friends/family members talking about me


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Reply by vio

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im genderless but would informally describe my gender as like,, static. a glitch. a bodyless entity even. a void if u will 


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Reply by xXabyssal_augustXx

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Gender is ??? (static, bees in a pinball machine, spontaneous punctuation)

I also keep jokingly saying the most accurate description of my gender is the song Tiny Maggot by Blindmunkee
it feels so gender to me


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Reply by 7

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I would describe my gender as something vampiric and genderless but masculine at the same time so….transmasc agender + any vampire related xenogender -Harkon


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Reply by V4MP1R3

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I'm a guy but in a girly boy kinda way, in a way that confuses everyones sexuality. :3


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Reply by arlo atomickk

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my gender is like when you look at a really effeminate twink and for a second you're like oh thats a girl but then you do a double take and realise they're just a twink


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Reply by nopixel

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i dont have a gender!


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Reply by Cyn

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I feel like I don't really have a gender because my gender expression as woman feels like part of my masking as an autistic person. I still don't mind she/her pronouns though and they don't necessarily feel incorrect because I often am trying to present as feminine (or am perceived that way bc I like dresses/skirts and find pants uncomfortable) even if it isn't the truest form of me.


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Reply by oisín

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honestly i'm a woman insofar that i'm a lesbian. like my gender is really just "lesbian" at the end of the day


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Reply by FREAK!

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I think my fave way of explaining my gender is how someone on tiktok explained it (Forgot @ sorry )

He said when he was younger he was girling as a girl, then boying as a girl, then boying as a boy and found that boring so now he's girling as a boy who's boying as a boy. Like I feel like this is such an easy way for me to explain my gender. Im a boy for sure but I will always have that femininity cause I think the fashions and aesthetics are soo fun especially when compared to traditionally "boy" aesthetics and fashions.

I havent been able to stop thinking about how this guy explained his gender because it was literally put so well and I felt so seen lmaooo


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Reply by CamillaH

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idk. im a female but i'm very chill about it. people can think whatever they want, i don't have any pronouns that i would prefer


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Reply by Japes

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OHHHHH I'm a bowl of spicy GAZPACHO that burns your tongue due to being room temperature.


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Reply by Xav

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I'm nonbinary and I view myself to be in the middle. Presentation-wise I'm usually more masculine but I'd like to maintain androgyny if I can.


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Reply by ♡ VALENTINE ♡

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Honestly I'd say my gender is like.... gushers but instead of jelly it's probably something weird or gross like ketchup or blood :D I love being cute and wearing tons of pink but also being crazy and unsettling :3


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Reply by ˗ˏˋ LOU !! ´ˎ˗

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u know those weird bugs u sometimes see out that are like too long or too bright and a bit scary but also kinda cute? my ganger.


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Reply by fabi ♡

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sometimes I feel like a girl sometimes I feel like a girl who is being possessed by a 19 year old emo Twink. that's why I use she/he. I think im going to adopt a nineteen-year-old-emo-boy alter ego.


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Reply by Quartz

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I'm a genderqueer woman. AFAB. Ever since I found out what genderqueer was in 2009 (nonbinary actually wasn't a common term then afaik), I have felt torn between being genderqueer and being a woman. But I can be fully both, not just half and half. I use whatever pronouns, but most people default to she/they.


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Reply by ☆꧁ariel꧂☆

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3 bimbos in a trenchcoat (im a cis girl)


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Reply by Robin

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I describe my gender as nonbinary but my expression as fluid. My gender and pronouns don’t change. I’m nonbinary and will always be nonbinary no matter how I present myself. But my expression comes in waves of masculine and feminine. Most of the time I describe myself as trans masc because I present masculine and feel masculine but my gender is still nonbinary. Other times I feel more feminine and present more neutral to feminine but my gender is still nonbinary. Just a reminder that presentation =/= identity and there technically are no gendered clothes/items/colors/etc. 


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Reply by pseudo4L

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I consider my gender to be a celiestial cube but with smoother sides and a translucent like finish


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Reply by nine

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i consider my gender to be ~pure vibes~


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Reply by i am the real nepeta

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uhhhh... Human?? Furry??? idk lmao .^.


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Reply by ash

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biologically? i’m a woman, thought process, very man. do i wna be called dad? yes, would i mind being a mom either? no. is that understandable?HAHA


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Reply by Mars!! :3

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My gender is kinda complicated because I don’t wanna be anything but also everything at once IDK IF THAT MAKES SENSE LOL


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Reply by Drea

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Somedays I feel no gender, somedays I feel a little bit like a woman, somedays I feel like a mix if both. I prefer identifying as a demigirl because of this :3


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Reply by Asbestos

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hmmmm ok so basically... if you think im a girl then im a boy and if you think im a boy then im a girl. but im also both at the same time 83 heheeheh


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Reply by pqGatito901

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I call myself a dude in a gender neutral tone. While ik I could go farther with presenting more fem, I just dont have the stomach or the freedom right now to go through with it. (immigrant parents, judgmental family drama, no stable job [settling in still], living in the current cultural state of the U.S.) However I am lazy, I've yet to get my hair styled and dressing up is tiring hoodie and sweats at all times type beat. 


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Reply by ellmiohmy

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i describe myself as a girl or woman in certain instances bc i am usually fem-presenting, but i identify as nonbinary. sometimes i think the best way to describe it is that i present as fem/a girl, but im really just some guy. just a little thing. sometimes i want to be a boy and get kinda confused on it, but that's just how i know im not cis lol


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Reply by Neo

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im a guy but if gender is a performance i am losing


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Reply by frankie x3

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im genderfluid and "girls who are boys who like boys to be girls who do boys like theyre girls who do girls like theyre boys" is sooo gender


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i consider myself a trans man but im also a tomboy girl and also both and neither lol


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Genderfluid 

Genders a daily lottery for me XD


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