Many people experience gender is many diffrent ways and I and most likly other people too would like to see how people can express and show their gender to others. I'm Nonbinary Woman/Transfem or Girlby/Femby.
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How would you describe your gender
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Reply by evol
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gender isn't an integer line between man and woman and enby isn't a placeholder for androgynous. /nm
i describe my gender as being deific and feline and inherently masculine :)
i id as a nonbinary man but i collect microlabels and i feel catboygender and praegender the most :3
Reply by Rowan
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Reply by Millie
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Varying between "genderfluid", "nonbinary transfeminine", and the scene in Parks and Rec where Ron Swanson has a piece of paper that says "I can do what I want"
Reply by fukurolady
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i use she/her pronouns but my gender is void. just Void.

Reply by Bҽα Kɳҽҽ
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I personally just feel like gender is made up just in general like I don't want one haha. I'm just a hot person. it's not that I'm not any of them it's that I'm not one at all...but as Rowan said above, politically I am a woman
Reply by 𝖘𝖙𝖊𝖕𝖍 🕸️
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nonbinary, technically agender as i don't vibe with either binary gender. an even more accurate microlabel is agenderflux, which means my gender is agender, but i fluctuate between a feminine and masculine presentation, and on fem days i don't feel dysphoric being called a woman and on masc days i don't feel dysphoric being called a man, though i would be on days that don't suit, and neither binary label is technically true. i guess you could say i'm demigirl on fem days and demiboy on masc days? but i'm still, at my baseline, agender. that being said, i don't use agender, agenderflux, demigirl or demiboy as labels, just descriptors. the labels i use are purely nonbinary and queer.
Reply by Jo Cipher
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Reply by Kinnie
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Honestly? Whatever the fuck leather daddies and 70s rockstars have it going on
Reply by madmaxxx
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im a mahu <3 in hawaiian culture a mahu is simply a person who does not conform to gender norms. defining myself anything beyond that is just hurts my head too much plus i dont personally see the point :p
Reply by Daemon
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YO
Reply by JupiterCafe
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I'm not woman, but I can't completely separate myself from womanhood. I am in touch with both my masculine and feminine side, I know that this isn't exclusive to gender as even cis people have a mixture of masculine and feminine energy. For me, it is something more. I identify with the terms gender-fluid, gender-queer, non-binary, and gender-flux. I don't mind any pronouns but prefer they/them.
Reply by bunnii (⁄ ⁄•⁄ω⁄•⁄ ⁄)
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I see myself as 85% male and 15% i dont fucking know lol. I like to dress up and feel pretty, but i feel like its just like a character i put on. normally im just a dude. All I know is i am not a woman at all. like, I never was.
Reply by beansontoast
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Ok how to put my gender in the simplest way to understand... i want to be a man socially and physically, except when i don't which is when i want to be feminine but not a woman and this is all the time so really i'm a
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Reply by anarchomuslimah
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i id as transmasc, girlboy n bimboy! i solely use he/him pronouns but wear makeup n skirts/dresses, i like to express my masculinity thru femininity n i still id w womanhood due to trauma
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Reply by beezlebulb
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My gender is mad confusing. Went through a small gender journey these past few days, trying to figure out if I was a guy or not, can't really decide so I just decided to go by they/them pronouns because she doesn't feel right and neither does he, so here we are. Luckily my girlfriend is really supportive about this whole process, I'm really lucky to be with someone who is down to stick by me no matter what or who I become.
Reply by v♡x♡crowbbyx♡x♡v
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its hard 4 me to tell lately tbh
Reply by n1k0l41
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honestly for a long time i called myself a 'femboy on xgames mode'!!! i'm nonbinary masculine, but i like to present as a *pretty* boy!!!
Reply by Henry/Kitsune
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Reply by CASPIAN
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Male, but more evil. I do feel strongly male, and I want cisgender people to only see me as that, nothing more. However, I also feel like my gender can be described as "weird extinct underwater creature". I identify strongly with being a binary male, but also "non-standard" gender at the same time.
Reply by 𖤐Levi//Milo𖤐
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Reply by 𝗭𝗔𝗖𝗞𝗢
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I feel like my idea of my own gender changes periodically.
I enjoy the idea of identifying as nonbinary, but I prefer He/Him as pronouns most of the time. Sometimes I prefer They/Them! It really changes a lot. I like GNC (gender non-conforming) as a label, but sometimes I do conform to maleness, so idk!! Not a lot of titles feel suitable. I briefly identified as gender-fluid about ten years ago when I was trying to figure myself out. My gender has been a journey and here's the path I've tracked:
male → gender-fluid → male → "gendervoid" → male → nonbinary → GNC → confusion??
Reply by KoopaDaQuick
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I've spent a lot of time over the past several years trying to find a label that truly fits. Genderfluid is the best one I could use, but whether or not it "flows" or how it does is something that I've still yet to grab a hold of.
For me, I sometimes feel more like a binary male, one who isn't super masculine or whatever, more "dude"ish than anything; but I sometimes (but less often) identify as a woman, although I rarely exhibit stereotypical "girly" behaviors, especially when compared to fellow frequently-online trans women. I'm androphilic, but the "vibe" of how I convey my attraction to men varies a lot whether I'm one or the other. Attraction might be more pronounced as a dude, might be more romantic and platonic as a girl, yadda yadda.
In all honesty, I would personally prefer to have one consistent identity that I can just call myself for the rest of time and be cool with. However, it's hard to have a typical gender identity when your feelings on the matter are so complex, so just being genderfluid and switching between a binary dude and a binary woman is far more accurate for me than having to pick one and then abandon the other. I have thought about being bigender, but my masculine and feminine personas are different and I personally don't like mixing them together, but that's just me. :P
Gender is confusing as hell, and the years have taught me that getting frustrated about how hard it is to convey your feelings regarding gender identity is not worth it when there's no such thing as a truly "right" or "wrong" answer to the question.
Reply by Isabella
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Reply by cvpid444
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i would say i present more nonbinary--|----fem (spectrum so | is where i am) but im nonbinary in the sense that i dont feel the need to identify as anything weirdly
Reply by consuelo
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i’m still exploring gender expression since i recently realized i don’t ID as a woman. I usually just say i’m nb, but genderfluid works best to describe my gender.
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Reply by CarnivalChimera
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I describe my gender with the label as transgender and androgyne for most people. Personally my gender feels like an amalgamation of monsters, a lot like chimeras!! I think the term transsexual fits how my body and gender feel intertwined, but not because of the textbook definition. It's more of a punk queer activist feeling that the word transsexual holds!!!
Reply by 𝕭𝖎𝖌𝕿𝖎𝖙𝖙𝖞𝕲𝖔𝖙𝖍𝕲𝖋
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Reply by frankie x3
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im genderfluid and "girls who are boys who like boys to be girls who do boys like theyre girls who do girls like theyre boys" is sooo gender
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i consider myself a trans man but im also a tomboy girl and also both and neither lol
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Reply by ellmiohmy
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i describe myself as a girl or woman in certain instances bc i am usually fem-presenting, but i identify as nonbinary. sometimes i think the best way to describe it is that i present as fem/a girl, but im really just some guy. just a little thing. sometimes i want to be a boy and get kinda confused on it, but that's just how i know im not cis lol
Reply by pqGatito901
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I call myself a dude in a gender neutral tone. While ik I could go farther with presenting more fem, I just dont have the stomach or the freedom right now to go through with it. (immigrant parents, judgmental family drama, no stable job [settling in still], living in the current cultural state of the U.S.) However I am lazy, I've yet to get my hair styled and dressing up is tiring hoodie and sweats at all times type beat.
Reply by Asbestos
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hmmmm ok so basically... if you think im a girl then im a boy and if you think im a boy then im a girl. but im also both at the same time 83 heheeheh
Reply by Drea
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Somedays I feel no gender, somedays I feel a little bit like a woman, somedays I feel like a mix if both. I prefer identifying as a demigirl because of this :3