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The worst part about being in a relationship?

What is the worst part of a relationship to you?


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Reply by ˚ʚWynter `⎚⩊⎚´ Snowberryɞ˚

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i find peeps who are usually 1-sided always turn out to be a controllin coverted narcissists that have both unrealistic high ass standard + expectations to where they act hella entitled that they then act hella offended / pissed off when you stand your ground rather than givin into their bs.


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Worst part for me… 

Worrying…worrying….worrying. 

The fear of losing my boyfriend. Death is inevitable I know that. But the thought of being in a world without him terrifies me. He also can’t compute losing me. 

On a lighter note…another worst thing


My boyfriend is so quick witted. He loves to poke fun with these clever comebacks that I can’t top. And the smile on his face when he does it is so cute. I do get playfully frustrated because I stutter or can’t think of something clever and pout lol. 




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Reply by Raemi

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definitely the overthinking. nothing to do with my partner, but i've been cheated on before and it sucks. my partner reassures me that she won't cheat bc she thinks its an absolutely disgusting behavior, but somehow it is still in the back of my mind. i really do hate being an overthinker lol. 


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Reply by Junie

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That you end up wasting months of your life on a person who promises equality but all the effort is one sided and you've pretty much become a trophy and form of emotional validation and not a loved and appreciated partner


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Reply by phantasia

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When they start to feel too comfortable to the point of bore. Just makes u wish when it was new and fun


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Reply by RoseRoss

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Probably the feeling of not really knowing what the other person is capable of and just having to trust until that feeling goes away :b


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Reply by Zapp's Bar & Grill

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Have to share my grommit mug



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Reply by 🥀The Mortician 🥀

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When one is too like I love you I miss you talk to me and your not really that and like to have like a good middle ground of being with each other but also not only spending time together and but spending time serpent from eachother.  


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Reply by LazyLexy

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when you have to do everything for them but they do nothing for you


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Reply by Ladii Killjoy

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I know it's a bit much , I'm an only child , no I don't wanna share a room , give up half my closet space , or see you everyday 


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Reply by Celestia

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you tend to worry whether youre doing enough/being a good partner


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Usually one person is being more honest than the other. Relationships would be in better shape, I think when they're open and it`s agreed upon to have no labels attached....but that`s just how I feel. I`m poly at heart and the only thing I require is honesty....but most people are too selfish and afraid, so you end up falling into the trap...playing the same games they play, maybe even worse. 


It`s just not worth it in the end unless everyone`s free to love who they want without us trying to control them with our insecurities and needing to feel special.


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Reply by ↳Xian ₍⑅ᐢ..ᐢ₎♡

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This one is really evident in friendships

When they need you to be there for them every single time they talk about their problems (which is every single day) and when you give them advice or try to help them, they say "I know" but doesn't listen which ends up to you giving everything that you can offer but no improvements seen from the person which traps you in a loop...


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Reply by ・゜✭・.Kai・✫・゜・

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It's hard to tell if someone is genuine about their feelings or not, so you can get hurt easily if you actually open up


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Reply by benny

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stability is monotony, instability is a hell like no other.


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Reply by zirconieee

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>be me, autistic
>"its ok, ily anon"
>has breakdowns + reduced functionality
>"you're a gross pos toxic loser"
>wtf.jpg

god forbid someone is actually mentally disabled and not just some quirked-up wholesome chungas ffs


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Reply by 99iris

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Major one is having an emotionally immature partner, also taking the risk to give your all for someone who settles for less.


Them expecting you to respond whenever convenient for them, even if you're busy it doesn't matter about the circumstances if they see it as an excuse. 


Lack of communication after arguments without recollecting thoughts and assuming the worst. (Not targeted at anxious thinkers).


Depending on the person and how they treated their exe's or been treated in the past may determine an outcome of how they may treat you, although it's not always that way.


Differences can be good and bad, getting to know your partner gives you a better understanding of them. Comparing past lives etc Trauma can cause a negative outcome on the Relationship and may cause conflict. 


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Reply by Void Squid

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They lie all the time and I can no longer trust them to tell the truth about anything and I constantly feel like they're not trying to get better at anything, they just expect to magically solve all their issues and when it doesn't work they make their issues worse and the cycle repeats 


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Reply by trevorbonitay

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i think the worse part about being in a relationship for me was she wanted to like kinda ahhh i don't really remember like pok.ay so she essentially was telling me that i need to clean myself and i mean my body my temple and my choice but its rough because if u wanna like hangout with someone in free time its hard if ur making music again and u wanna focus on that. like its rough thing


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Reply by Alanms.12xwo

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lo peor para mi fue que, a veces no entienden el como te sientes tu, y aunque les expliques seguira siendo lo mismo.


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Reply by ★ cereza ★

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your s/o being told to cheat or that they could do better [in terms of physical appearance], etc something similar-- massive blow to self esteem and it makes u doubt whether they're really attracted to u or if it's just something else they want


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Reply by sugarydarlin

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the worst part for me is when they lack communication skills.


when they cant tell me straigh up whats bothering them,i am a relly understanding personso i love it when someone can tell me how they feel about some stuff but if they cant tell me something is bothering them it makes that realtionship hard to function.(sorry for bad english)


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Reply by Lek

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Br Topic: Medo constante de traição 


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Reply by Vitte_ryy

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los celos y la distancia 


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Reply by nel

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when it is only you who puts effort into the relationship and the other person values ​​you less


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Reply by ──★ ˙ ̟🦴Kasey !!

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When u always have to start the conversation... 


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Reply by 𝖗𝖎𝖊𝖑ㅤ𖤐.ㅤ埃勒   !

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The lack of communication and romanticization of abusive relationships, lately I have noticed this among couples, especially outside the internet. People no longer know how to understand and respect others. 


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Reply by akiko_Reyes_pq

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Reply by Koore

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After going throug lots of them you feel balnk and start to be like the one that broke your heart in the first place, starting a never ending cicle of broken hearts and it's no one's fault.


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Reply by ke;zp

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Yep, mine doesn't like Taco Tuesdays either...


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Reply by Devvvv010

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Lack of proper communication and having to single handedly carry a relationship are big ones for me. There's also things like being aware that the other person slowly putting less interest/time into you but being too attached to stick up for yourself or let them go that can be tiring in a relationship 


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The fact that you could be just wasting your time, and not even know it.


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Reply by yornomi

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the worst part is when u don't communicate well enough what each of u wants from the relationship and what part u play in their future :,)


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Reply by madz

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when they dont listen to you


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Reply by Zak Kovacs

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them acting like theyre sick of me for weeks and says they dont like it when i keep asking if they think im annoying because it "makes them look like a bad boyfriend" and when you express the want to leave they start acting lovey dovey and feeling like youre the bad guy.


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Reply by noahpoah

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losing feelings quickly/getting bored of them within a few months


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Reply by Jordan :P

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Falling into some kind of toxic cycle where you're just hurting each other mentally/emotionally and neither of you make an effort to change before it's too late.


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Reply by Gastie Gorge

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Everytime I took my pills she disappears


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Reply by Hallucigenia

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A good percentage of the time the other person might think of themselves as a main character in a romance book and you as their love interest. They don't truly believe you have a life outside of the relationship and if you do not give up everything for them they get angry at you. 


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Reply by Raheed Arshad

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The challenges of being in a relationship can vary for each individual, but some common difficulties include communication issues, misunderstandings, and the need for compromise. Balancing personal space and maintaining individual identities while fostering a healthy partnership can also present challenges. It's important to note that relationships require effort, understanding, and effective communication to navigate these complexities successfully.


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Reply by Natfjak

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Having to worry about everything. Especially when you have previous shitty relationships. You tend to worry about EVERYTHING and it impacts you, and could even impact your partner, and its just draining.


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Reply by tigertorment

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not having the freedom to rlly find what person u rlly love and would want to actually date, instead u are committed to one person instead of being able to like see other people


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Reply by ♥Pookster♥

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when they keep going cat mode...


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Reply by Bucktooth Billy

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having to share my rootin tootin bbq with my sissy boyfriend from up north


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Reply by Neco-Arc Chaos

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The worst part? Perhaps the dance of vulnerability, where the chaos of emotions intertwines. The fear of losing oneself in the complexity of shared existence, yet finding solace in the connection. Relationships, a paradoxical blend of joy and vulnerability, where the boundaries blur, and the heart echoes with both harmony and discord.




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Reply by Evan!!!

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How dependent can you become on the other person, to the point of slowly damaging yourself, and not to mention if the other person breaks up with you, it's horrifying 


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Reply by vic_zombi3

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the "ick" phenomenon, or how one small thing can change your entire view of someone you're interested in


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Reply by cyberpcnk !

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when they do smth you dont like but youre too scared to say anything 


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Reply by MalinLamb2

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The fact that i'm very needy, obsessive, affectionate and, love like a dog.

People get anoyed with me very quickly.



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