actually starting stuff. like when you're initially progressing from flirting to the actual realised concept of love, and you want to back out desperately but you stay. from there it's all fine because you really begin to love them, but that shit is TERRIFYING.

also the lack of communication/mutual trust. like when people refuse to vocalise what they have on their mind - and it leads to built up resentment that seeps out in interesting ways. it breaks down the relationship slowly. if you cannot communicate, that is a problem with you and should therefore be resolved by you. lack of communication correlates with lack of trust, and will cause nothing but a host of problems

When you're black and you decide to date someone white and their parents are racist

Maybe it's just me but all of a sudden, he goes into a get away from me mode, when I do something unintentionally that he doesn't like, I mean, involuntary things, like when I talk to another guy and he stares at me or waits for me to stop talking to that person and go with him, and then he becomes indifferent, I really don't know how to deal with that.

if there is a "one true love" i already found her and lost her. if there's another true love then i definitely havent met her

I'm in relationship at this moment and I don't really like the fact that I'm jealous but sadly I can't help it. It's probably because of the abandonment issues :/

Having to look at there ugly face

For me it's that I'm really jealous

when they think stealing my food is okay now....

when they '' like you '' but you realize they just like the idea of you

That takes a lot of time away from everything, your circle closes only between you and him, it is sad, if it ends you would be alone after, you have to know how to manage, they are your friends or he is.

expecting it to be perfect but it never is 

this is def a me problem but anytime i get into a relationshp i feel like they only assked me out for laughs or bcs they felt bad yk

probs just juggling mental health 

when my friends have a lot in common with them so i get jealous when they talk to my friends

Relationships are nice at first but you definitely stop seeing your friends as much, having personal space and freedom... especially when you move in together. its really easy to lose yourself. I LOVE LOVE and HATE LOVE. hate being lonely, love the beginning excitement.

when they try to guilt trip you into doing something purely due to the fact you exist.

i think as a transgender autistic guy 99% of my relationship problems come down to people choosing to not disclose whether or not they're "okay with" me being transsexual in a clear yes or no answer. cut the bullshit before the first confession so the both of know it's going nowhere, yk?

The fact that i'm very needy, obsessive, affectionate and, love like a dog.

People get anoyed with me very quickly.

when they do smth you dont like but youre too scared to say anything 

the "ick" phenomenon, or how one small thing can change your entire view of someone you're interested in

How dependent can you become on the other person, to the point of slowly damaging yourself, and not to mention if the other person breaks up with you, it's horrifying 

The worst part? Perhaps the dance of vulnerability, where the chaos of emotions intertwines. The fear of losing oneself in the complexity of shared existence, yet finding solace in the connection. Relationships, a paradoxical blend of joy and vulnerability, where the boundaries blur, and the heart echoes with both harmony and discord.

having to share my rootin tootin bbq with my sissy boyfriend from up north

when they keep going cat mode...

not having the freedom to rlly find what person u rlly love and would want to actually date, instead u are committed to one person instead of being able to like see other people

Having to worry about everything. Especially when you have previous shitty relationships. You tend to worry about EVERYTHING and it impacts you, and could even impact your partner, and its just draining.

The challenges of being in a relationship can vary for each individual, but some common difficulties include communication issues, misunderstandings, and the need for compromise. Balancing personal space and maintaining individual identities while fostering a healthy partnership can also present challenges. It's important to note that relationships require effort, understanding, and effective communication to navigate these complexities successfully.

A good percentage of the time the other person might think of themselves as a main character in a romance book and you as their love interest. They don't truly believe you have a life outside of the relationship and if you do not give up everything for them they get angry at you. 

Everytime I took my pills she disappears

Falling into some kind of toxic cycle where you're just hurting each other mentally/emotionally and neither of you make an effort to change before it's too late.

losing feelings quickly/getting bored of them within a few months

them acting like theyre sick of me for weeks and says they dont like it when i keep asking if they think im annoying because it "makes them look like a bad boyfriend" and when you express the want to leave they start acting lovey dovey and feeling like youre the bad guy.

when they dont listen to you

the worst part is when u don't communicate well enough what each of u wants from the relationship and what part u play in their future :,)

The fact that you could be just wasting your time, and not even know it.

Lack of proper communication and having to single handedly carry a relationship are big ones for me. There's also things like being aware that the other person slowly putting less interest/time into you but being too attached to stick up for yourself or let them go that can be tiring in a relationship 

Yep, mine doesn't like Taco Tuesdays either...

After going throug lots of them you feel balnk and start to be like the one that broke your heart in the first place, starting a never ending cicle of broken hearts and it's no one's fault.

que sean tacaños :v

The lack of communication and romanticization of abusive relationships, lately I have noticed this among couples, especially outside the internet. People no longer know how to understand and respect others. 

When u always have to start the conversation... 

when it is only you who puts effort into the relationship and the other person values ​​you less

los celos y la distancia 

Br Topic: Medo constante de traição 

the worst part for me is when they lack communication skills.

when they cant tell me straigh up whats bothering them,i am a relly understanding personso i love it when someone can tell me how they feel about some stuff but if they cant tell me something is bothering them it makes that realtionship hard to function.(sorry for bad english)

your s/o being told to cheat or that they could do better [in terms of physical appearance], etc something similar-- massive blow to self esteem and it makes u doubt whether they're really attracted to u or if it's just something else they want

lo peor para mi fue que, a veces no entienden el como te sientes tu, y aunque les expliques seguira siendo lo mismo.

i think the worse part about being in a relationship for me was she wanted to like kinda ahhh i don't really remember like pok.ay so she essentially was telling me that i need to clean myself and i mean my body my temple and my choice but its rough because if u wanna like hangout with someone in free time its hard if ur making music again and u wanna focus on that. like its rough thing

They lie all the time and I can no longer trust them to tell the truth about anything and I constantly feel like they're not trying to get better at anything, they just expect to magically solve all their issues and when it doesn't work they make their issues worse and the cycle repeats 

Major one is having an emotionally immature partner, also taking the risk to give your all for someone who settles for less.

Them expecting you to respond whenever convenient for them, even if you're busy it doesn't matter about the circumstances if they see it as an excuse. 

Lack of communication after arguments without recollecting thoughts and assuming the worst. (Not targeted at anxious thinkers).

Depending on the person and how they treated their exe's or been treated in the past may determine an outcome of how they may treat you, although it's not always that way.

Differences can be good and bad, getting to know your partner gives you a better understanding of them. Comparing past lives etc Trauma can cause a negative outcome on the Relationship and may cause conflict.