wish i could say, if i ever dated anyone now who knows what would happen lol, i kinda dated someone, but i was a pussy and ghosted them a day later.

Dependency on your partner :/

The worst part is sharing my space :/ I love being around them and all but they get so weird when I need time for myself :((( I’m introverted so that just might be my own problem 

wouldn't know, quite the loser myself

Not being able to know when are you gonna break up 

When it ends up becoming long distance :(

I love my boyfriend with all my heart but we haven't really talked a lot since he moved away :C

Knowing that even if they disrespect you in any kind, youre so attached that youll almost always forgive them

Many people are mentioning what I would be mentioning. The one-sidedness, being so attached that you'd forgive them for any amount of disrespect when they wouldn't do the same. Overall, I'd say it's trust issues from past experiences that hinders anything greater, or just creates an uneasiness/anxiety about things.

When you think so highly of them they start getting toxic, and doing not okay things.

Being love bombed :<

Boring people.

I get bored really easily. If my S/O isn't adventurous or can't entertain me, were through.

I would say the worst part , is we don’t know what they’re truly thinking , the soul attachment, the one sided devoted loyalty until death , the never thinking they could betray you the way they did, the feeling like you just witnessed the love of your life die as you watch except they’re alive still and in your presence. It was all an illusion, was any of it real ?

the worst part is overthinking ur whole relationship cuz ur so worried theyre cheating or they dont rlly love u O_o

i HATE having 2 answer 2 someone!!!
if i wanna spend 24/hrs playing IMVU it'z my RIGHT!
stop txting me! 

being paranoid all the time or feeling like ur not good enough for thm >,,,,< 

being with someone who literally runs from any difficult or mind-engaging conversation!!! i HATEEEE IT

being with a partner who blames all there problems on u :/

It honestly takes up a lot of free time or time away from taking care of myself. Also that fear of potentially being cheated on as well or your partner taking interest in someone else. 

the fear of abandonment :D

to me the worst part about being in a relationship is the overthinking and the need of reassurance

This is more of just something I wanted to get off my chest and to be honest here the worst part about being in a relationship is when it’s over and you’re trying to heal not just about what happened with them but also what you yourself did and I’m just speaking on myself for this one but looking back I was honestly an Ass hole to them the whole time during the relationship I would be passive aggressive and saying really hurtful things to them not only because I was upset at something that had previously happened but also just because they would do things that made me uncomfortable or even just annoyed even tho I won’t get into too much of what they did but it was a lot and it made me very upset half the time however that is still no excuse for what I did I still hurt them justified or not and even tho I couldn’t apologize or take back what I did I still want to try and be a better person to learn from my mistakes and do better in whatever relationship I get myself into because I’ve hurt people a lot more then I’d like to admit and some of those people I would love to just talk to again and just say sorry for everything not for forgiveness but for closure just to know that their ok I don’t want to be that asshole who just ruined their life forever I know that saying sorry won’t take back the damage I caused but I at least want them to be happy and safe because knowing I hurt someone I was supposed to care for hurts me and moving forward I want to be a better person and change clean up my act and not hurt the ones I love so that’s where I am in terms of life sorry for the long winded reply and or spelling mistakes I wrote this at 7am lol 

Not many people say it, but actually having to talk to your partner. Dont get me wrong, i love it its so fun and amazing, but i have anxiety and think im annoying- OH! And when YOUR expected to pay for everything

Can’t play with the boys when shes constantly texting you 

quando você trata a pessoa da melhor forma que pode e faz tudo por ela. 

Mas ela não faz o mesmo e não parece te tratar como prioridade dela .

The fact that you give your all in a relationship and that same person says you're not enough for them. That hurts :(

when even if they text me constantly and tell me constantly how beautiful, pretty, etc, I am it's never enough. it's not their fault but I just can't trust lul

getting too comfortable and then the love starts to fade 

when the way youre feeling or feelings you have just cant seem to be explained to them

I show a lot of love to those who don't deserve it

Some people want to be in a "relationship" but when the relationship is loading they're super clingy or act like you guys are legally bound together.

Forgetting that you’re in a r

when they get bored of you lol

realising the other person only likes the affection u give them, not the actual person u are...

Being treated poorly and then being blamed for it

My commitment issues lmao, also the grasp of marriage??? Imagine walking he and there's literally someone waiting for u like??????

How sometimes they ignore ur calls omfg its so annoying

commit

i think the worst part is having to introduce them to the other people in your life - friends, family, etc. and then also dealing with their friends/family if you don't get along with them

missing them

When one party is more giving than the other. 

They say they like the crazy girls, until you act crazy :/

Socialization is a part of every relationship... of course they want to talk to you. You two (or... three? not my place to judge.) are dating... its kind of natural.

But I often hate how overthinking can ruin a good relationship. Paranoia, constant questions... It's hard for both parties. I often find myself on the giving end. Being a hopeless romantic AND having trust issues surrounding romance is like hell on earth.

haiii! :3 i’m just gonna rant abit about things that i hate in relationships nowadays because finding genuine love now is just so fucking HARD ╥﹏╥ but yeah

1. the whole nonchalance of it all. 

i hate how speaking to someone nowadays slowly turns into a competition of who can respond later than the other because there’s this whole concept of “if he wanted to he would” and “if you respond to fast you’re being too forward” like what?? just RESPOND WTF how else is someone gonna know that you like them if you don’t even respond to their texts and let them know how you feel. it’s so silly because how does someone’s response time determine your relationship. (ngl i have fallen victim to this because as soon as my fav person stops responding as fast i do get a bit panicky but that’s when the reassurance comes in and they hopefully let me know where they’ve been so i don’t have to worry anymore, THATS how to communicate. but most people leave the reassurance part out and that’s when they start to drift and stop responding to eachother even more)

2. not being able to listen to your partner

now i’ve been wanting to talk about this for a loongggg time because this has been an issue for me for AGES. see i have autism right so navigating relationships for me is already a bit tricky. and when i spoke about my current hyperfixation to my now ex boyfriend he would just disregard me and not listen to me in the slightest he didn’t even act like he was interested like he would literally go “that’s so interesting but i don’t care” and it made me feel SO idk is neglected the right word to use? i just felt so ignored bc he just shut me down completely. and the reason why i value being listened to so much is because some people may have grown up in a home where they weren’t listened to as much so it’s kind of a sensitive spot for them and it’ll make them feel misunderstood. and all they want is for someone to just take some time out of their day to understand them and listen to their silly rants. maybe this is me projecting my parental issues onto all of you reading this (i most definitely am) but i still think it’s really important

3. the concept of lovebombing

i recently got lovebombed by yet again my now EX boyfriend (idek if we’ve broken up because he won’t answer my texts but we’re definitely done in my books) and it got me thinking about how i hate this whole idea of lovebombing and i can’t wrap my head around why someone would do this.

to summarise me and my ex’s relationship: we connected through having a very similar music taste and we understood eachother to a certain level and bonded a bit, he barely showed me affection at the start and i was kinda starved of it tbh this was before we were dating tho so i didn’t even know he “liked” me. we stopped talking for 2 months then started up again. then all of a sudden there was this burst of love and i pretty much was showered with compliments and “i love yous” and i took that shit and ran with it he literally asked me out the DAY we started talking again and i felt like it was rushed cos we only just started speaking again i got attached pretty quick and that’s when he started pulling away. and i was always running after him and  overthinking if i did something wrong, then he pulled the “it’s you not me im such a horrible boyfriend” card and pulled me back in AGAIN it was just a cycle of this over and over til i got fed up 

so i was just thinking like if you’re not interested in someone why waste their time? and why waste your OWN time investing in something your heart isn’t even fully into? it’s just so ridiculous seriously if you’re not CERTAIN you want to spend time with this person then why do it… even if you’re “not sure” just don’t do it. 

SORRY FOR THE LONG RANT LMFAOOA but yeah those r my thoughts <3

xoxo moe

How some of them may not respect your bound

people have proboly said this but when you give someone everything you have and give the so much of you time and love. And the way their treating you is teribble but you dont relize it cause you love them so much and they take advantage of you cause you gave them everything, and they left you with nothing

for me, it's having to give up things that MAY make my partner uncomfortable (ex. talking to a certain person, talking abt certain things). This usually isn't a problem in any real relationships because adjusting to another person's interests (even if you personally don't like them) is just apart of healthy relationships, but I feel like it's been normalized to not do this idk.

when ur parents dont like ur s/o 

its getting bad when you start to suggest his/her friends because when he/she says "BLAH IS MY FRIEEEND.BE RELAX" you can understand that is not true person for yourself.

it's always been physical intimacy for me. i learned the hard way i was aroce. i just cannot do constant hugging, being too physically close to someone, 'relationship actions' such as kissing, cuddling, etc. and dont get me started on the expectation for sex. the best i can do is hand holding, lmao