when i gave more energy and effort then i received .... really made me change my perspective about anything in the future .... and the fact that my friends tell me im always better single says alot, because i agree. 

Their love language is touch ugh

when you bust your ass working 40+ hours a week, and they dont do anything. not even clean the house and you have to do everything. clean, cook, and work? like brah!!

All the arguments in the relationship, I had too many in my marriage, hence I have been divorced for 9 years 

que no tenga responsabilidad afectiva !! sal de ahí.

que no tenga responsabilidad afectiva !! sal de ahí.

The worst part is when you give your all for the relationship and they give the bare minimum. In the beginning they’re all into you but when they get you the compliments stop. I just wish I could meet someone who puts as much energy into the relationship as I do. 

when one is not ready for it

They want you to give up your dreams for theirs 

For me it is when you have to change the main things about yourself to make them happy.

When it starts to fail and you can’t really do much but watch it happen. 

When someone isn't on the same page as you and they hold you back from living your best life. It truly is better to be alone than to be with someone whose a drag.

him saying he loved me but talking to tons of girls at the same time

getting bored. either i get bored of them or they get bored of me.

When I found out he liked feet

feeling like u constantly annoying them.

how they stop putting in effort eventually... it's something i'm currently dealing with right now. 

The uncertainty now a days people are good at masking emotions I don’t think anyone is authentic anymore. 

lol getting cheated on

The uncertainty now a days people are good at masking emotions I don’t think anyone is authentic anymore. 

Finding out they aren't the person you thought they were (especially if the talking stage was rushed or there wasn't a talking stage at all)

how emotionally draining they can be, and one sided

constant paranoia of being scared ur s/o is cheating or is uninterested no matter how much you trust them

the peak days of your relationship during the first few months and on the third it seems as if everything falls apart

dealing with your partners insecurities when they are the exact opposite of your own. like im gonna do it even if im uncomfy cause i love him and i want to support him whatever way i can. but man has been screwed over a few too many times and i dont intend on quitting what i signed up for, im just a bit worn out at times Owo

The uncertainty now a days people are good at masking emotions I don’t think anyone is authentic anymore. 

overthinking 

the fact that it could all end within like 10 seconds; the feeling of "hey if we break up it'll destroy everything"

When they don't listen to Frank Ocean

when they kill you in fucking minecraft bro. the damn betrayal

When your partner lies to you or when It's a one sided relationship

how emotionally exhausting it can be

patience and communication definately, when youre in a relationship, time has to be distributed in many different ways, less time could either feel like distance or a break, more time could feel obsessive, and then communicating ones feelings to another opens an entirely new area

How much more it hurts to be alone for a long time

Ugh tbh how risky it is gettin into one.. like u dont know what could happen or what their "true colors" are...like everything could change on just a random day

for me it's when the relationship drags on and you're not getting your emotional needs met anymore and then you feel like the bad guy for breaking up bc they didn't do anything wrong per say, they just didn't do enough you know ?

Him breathing other girls air

I don't wanna speak on shitty relationships that are obviously toxic. However I will say it was like being hit by a truck I saw coming when I realized I am in a healthy relationship, but now MY toxic ass was gonna have to TrY and be a good person more often than not. It's exhausting being good. No wonder so many relationships are bad! LMAO

You don't know why it's going to end.

No longer just worrying about yourself.

lovebombing.

wasted time maybe if it wast the one. otherwise prob jealousy at least for me

When you can tell they're losing feelings 4 u </3

For me the beginning of relationships are always hard, (not that I really have much experience) because it tends to be awkward trying to get to know eachother and figure out the dynamic

when the two of you have completely different communication styles so when things go wrong you just piss each other off LOL

when you feel like your putting in all the effort 

I’m a hoe 💃💃

having to share food :,) 

the shit-talking after a breakup.

When you can't really do what you want. I know controlling is bad but that's not what I'm refering to. I'm refering to the fact that your partner has to voice on what they think about a piercing, tattoo, haircut, or haircolor that you want. they will say I prefer you not to do it, or if there is a person that you like hanging out with, usually its another dude you consider a close friend, your partner says no because they have suspicions that your bro-friend is gonna make a move. on top of where to live and what pets you want, objects in the house. that sort of thing.