just got out of my first serious relationship which lasted 3 years...my entire young adult life...shits tuff. but i know im young and at least things ended when they did so i can still have fun and mess around. think ill stay single for a while now and have a few short flings to make up for lost time from that asshole ex :D

Im single as well........... looking for the one, of course, but it's a slow, very very slow ride.

meeee! I wish I had some lips to smooch right now. And someone could smooch mine (i have 2 sets)

im alone but idk i dont care cuz i like the independence and when i was in love its weird and sad haha 

((

Im sooo single

currently I am I’m too freaked out to get into anything with anyone from my town before I move away

Been single 4 ever, NEVER Been in a Relationshi 

Last 2 relationships were shit. Giving up fr fr

i think it is not having to worry about dealind w relationship problems like fights or disagreements

at this point there are no pros of being single for me anymore i feel so fucking lonely all the time

I've been single for 17 years so I think I can answer this. Almost had a chance with someone but we stopped talking [hopefully], I think I dodged a whole ass rocket. The pro is that I get to work on myself more efficiently and I have more time to focus on my hobbies/career. I like to pretend that I don't care about relationships but deep down I do and it'd be really nice to be with someone who resonates with me. But we'll see what cards I get dealt with later in life.

I'm single, unfortunately. However, I just turned 18, so now I'm legal and ready to mingle (with another hawt emo adult, of course), rawr.

Hit me up if you are bored. I will answer any question. I am not a bot and will give you an honest human opinion. Dont be scared...

 The postive side: Freedom.

I associate with whom I please and welcomes me. Other than my hours of work, I control my schedule, and given sufficent desire, I can change where I work. If I want to read a book or watch some vile porn at 3:00 in the morning, I can.  

21 and been single my entire life lol

i can't really weigh the pros and cons bc i haven't experienced anything else

Last time i been in one was like 5 years ago lol, but the best part about being single i would only say is learning how to love yourself more and be better and by the time you meet someone new it's like you're way better as you used to be

Hello huzz !

I am here looking for someone for my very shy friend, essaii.

Don't worry, he's very tall and muscular! ;)

Message him saying "What's good big bean" and he will promptly give u an edate to remember!

Sincerely and Masterfully,

The Bubble Boy.

Im single and untill recently never found issues with it! Unfortunatly getting to even talking stage is super hard for me to do! The only downsides i find is how lonley it can be especially when all your friends already have partners. Otherwise the freedom of it is very nice! not needing to worry about  your theoretical partner judging you! the last downside is unfortunatly its even harder atleast where i am to find a partner whos accepting considering im not cis! If anyone wants 2 talk relationship problems they've had id love to hear! 

Been single for about a year after getting out of a long term relationship. Part of me wants to get back out there and try again, but another part of me is still bitter and jaded which I know is only going to be an issue sooner or later.  Shrug

been single all my life, no one my age is worth dating where I live TnT

I’ve been single since mid July and have been kind of lonely since then. =( I miss that feeling I’ve being loved and cherished and also giving it in return.

I am single, I want to change. But I'm too exigent for doing so lol

currently single because i thought my last relationship was almost perfect except for the distance, then over time i realized i wasn't as happy as i thought

long story short i'm a yapper and i need someone who yaps back and can meet my intensity in interest

single and looking 

i'm single but i wouldn't wanna date someone just cuz 

i have been single since last year, and i would say being single is great most times but i would rather have someone in my life to make me happy, even though it might not last long we could make the most of it, so erm i rlly need someone to get with and who yaps js like me cuz GOSH i love yapping and showing my clinginess to my loved ones. 

Single for 15 yeaaars and going, genuinely not interested in relationships

been single like my whole life and yeah it suckssssssssss Im so lonleyyyyyyyyyyyy

single because i found out my ex had been cheating on me for four months (i had lost all hope and faith in humanity) <3

Fumbled my first two cuz I was uncertain with myself (among other things), then due to a major disagreement the third left me basically emotionally dead. I know who I am now, and what I want, I'm just disappointed at myself for needing such a long time to see. Single and I think I deserve it.

Me!! ik this post is dead. but ive never been in a relationship be4 the guy i was talking to almost went to jail for running over my classmate. Then I kinda hooked up with this guy at this party (he was clapped n i was lonely so i gave him head thats it) NEVER AGAIN.. anyways 

HMU if u wanna chat and get to know me, cause I would love to get know u!!

I am and I've never liked being single it really sucks tbh I'm kinda desperate I just like men and I've dated 3 people and rejected 3 times in a row please I'm desperat just nice men who are my aaaage

Im single,

Im bisexual, 14, female, she / her

I really need a person whom is able to distract me when I need it though (ex - hyper, happy, nice.) as I will do my best to distract them as they desire, not up for sexual business though, flirting is fine but I'm never sending exposing pictures of myself or anything. 

More info upon me : I like rock, metal, crunk, some rap and similar, huge fan of goth rock though. I love writing, poetry, reading, cats, marine biology, art, pretty lace, I have 11 piercings and one tattoo (I have snake bites, septum, 3 ear lobes on both ears, helix on my right, and my belly is pierced. then my tattoo is a crescent on my left middle finger.) 

If you wish to speak to me, you can find my socials on my profile and my discord is DJpussypunisher heh 

also I prefer ages contacting me to stay 13 - 16 :))

Sadly me… 

im single as hell 6o6 but the only good side of being single is that romantically you dont owe satisfaction to a certain person cuz if you get laid with someone who isn't your bf/gf, you are cooked but if you js had sex with someone you know and both of you are single, it just happened yk?

yep :(

single :3c

i guess theres more time to myself but it might be less valuable than if someone else was there

yeah, single

Lol i feel you, also bc of covid ive been stuck in the house and never really went back to school do online classes and same hard to meet people :^

Man, I just want to have a partner...:'(

sadly me... I'm probably too scared to talk to someone idk

I was single for a long time due to a difficult and painful breakup with my ex-boyfriend. My friends recommended me to use dating sites to meet someone new. I was never really interested in online dating, but this time I decided to give it a try. I was pleasantly surprised that now it's so easy to find profiles of people with similar interests and who meet your criteria for finding a partner. I used www.uniformdating.com and it really helped me find a good partner for a relationship.

I'm been single for a few months now (since January), and tbh I hate the lonely feeling that just lingers after, I can never truly be alone after my first heartbreak, things just never felt the same after that, I was talking to someone but we just ended off as just friends, it's been five months just to end up as a friend, anyways being single sucks but it for sure has it's benefits loll

As someone going on 40, after 20 years with someone, I have some reflections:

There is a great painful longing inside of all us. It's not just seeking comfort or security. It's seeking connection. Humans are social creatures. It is in our nature. We crave the network of human spirits. When we are disconnected it hurts, a lot. So we try really hard to find and make connections, naturally.

It's obvious that the most powerful, and intense connection someone can have is one that is intimate; mentally and physically. Greater risk, greater reward. The unfortunate thing is we don't know what happens, until it happens. The only thing worse than longing, is losing. Losing someone really close to you poses a danger that warps reality. Loss can cause literal psychosis.

Yet, despite experiencing this ourselves, we deny that it exists. We tell each other, "There's other fish..." etc. We subdue ourselves through escape be it hedonism, introversion, religion... We've all been victim to such things, in varying degrees.

One thing that stands out for me is that for a brief moment, it was OK to feel. Despite the jokes and all, there was something about the early 2000's that stood out. I was young at the time and I didn't even consider it until recently. But I distinctly remember a time when you could vent your frustration directly to your friend or even partner. I think that's what the "emo generation" was.

It was a culture of emotion. We were at a peak level of connection. Anything could happen, a god awful situation could turn around through a song and cry or screaming session. We didn't know how great we had each other. We did things together in person, and when we didn't, we were online keeping up.

Which leads me to my greater point

We have had this great world stripped from us. The culture we were creating, it was taken from us. The beautiful seeds we planted were paved over and colored gray. It's painfully obvious that our world has become dreadfully dull and lifeless. Look at any restaurant, look at any social media platform: bland, empty... ( Not spacehey ;D ) 

Yet we struggle to go back to those beautiful things. Because EVERYONE is on facebook or tiktok. We have a hard time going against the herd. And your "single" struggle is EAXCTLY that.

We find ourselves defaulting to an empty void - simply because it's all we know anymore.

If we are ever to overcome our disconnect, our longings, our needs, we have to break free. If you try to find love in a system that doesn't support it, you will find yourself running in place. The only way to feel love, to be loved, is to change the program.

Stand out
Do something unexpected
Intentionally go against the status quo

Even if you don't believe in it, do it for the experience. You'll be surprised what happens. Make abundant use of free will. You will start to make friends, maybe even people you would've never considered before. Invite your friends to SPACEHEY and old style forums.

WE CAN REBUILD.
YOU CAN REBUILD YOU.

And with a little luck, maybe you'll find the love you were after in the first place. I found mine, and it turns out it wasn't even a person. Not to say I'm opposed to a new relationship, I just found what my heart was looking for - In music.

It took a long recovery and a few hospital visits. It took me realizing that someone I thought I knew had changed. Maybe they fell into the matrix, I don't know for sure. All I know is that right now, despite near death I'm actually around people that care about me. And we are all wildly different individuals yet for some reason the universe has dragged us into a band.

If I'm feeling off, someone notices. They don't talk shit when I express myself, they embrace it. And that's the way it SHOULD be. FOR BETTER OR WORSE. There shouldn't be any "chasing" or "catching." We should just do. Maybe I'm just a dreamer, maybe I'm just a hopeful trekkie. But I believe that with enough of us 'fish' swimming upstream, we might be able to change the landscape. And then we might be able to build homes again.

I LOVE YOU.

(:  *x* -=- PLUR -=- *x*  :)