do you date to marry?

I date someone to get to know them more and I be in a proper relationship if I consider them being my future wife

yes, it seems pointless otherwise. And you're only setting yourself or the other person up for heartbreak. 

Ideally, seems really fake, plastic and forced when you don't, more lustful than sentimental if anything

ig this is something people should ask now because back then thats why people dated but now we date for a variety of reasons. long story short; im not even open to dating rn LOL. im 19 so why rush anything, im comfy in my own presence too.

I’ve only dated a few people, but for me at this point in my life I just like learning about people, and how to manage relationships. It’s hard to get with someone and just say “I want to spend the rest of my life with you”. 

No. I think your primary goal when dating someone should be growing and learning. Romantic connections can be very triggering for some because they reveal parts of yourself you didn’t know you had. If you let yourself, you will heal and grow to be a better person. If not, romantic relationships will feel like hell for you because you don’t learn your lessons, which is why you will always repeat the same cycles. Therefore you need to learn how to be your own person first before you can get into the dating scene, imo 🤷🏻‍♀️ If you already did that u can try dating someone with marriage in mind .. It just depends on the person and how far they’ve come in their healing journey.