What the hell was I on when in was in middle school?? Shit was absolutely miserable and I made it worse by. Literally being me.
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Reply by Sammy
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Advice for Middle schoolers:
Reply by 2kkink
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shit to bee honest I don't even remember my middle school years beside almost fighting a girl over some ugly ass lil boy (I didn't have any standards omg)
Reply by Li<3
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TW: SH i was in 1st pd. and someone said "wrist checkkk" and i said " jokes on you ion cut my wrists i cut my thighs" IT WAS SO FUNNY LMAO
Reply by 🧁៸៸ 𝙉𝙞𝙠𝙠𝙞
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Reply by Mimi!
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Reply by tyler!1!11!!1
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Reply by 🗿
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my advice is the opposite i suggest be yourself so even if you are cringy at least you were just figuring out who you were. If you act like someone you aren't, you can still be cringy but on top of that be untrue to yourself. For example in middle school i wanted to look smart and shit so i would distance myself from people and make them think i was some sort of genius just because i got good grades. Since I'm comfortable with myself in high school, I don't have to continuously pretend to be different, and I actually feel comfortable around my group of friends.
Reply by crying
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fr.
Reply by Loralie
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My advice to middle schoolers:
Reply by Orlok
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Actually real good advice: Get off the internet, social media, f2p games, etc. That stuff unironically rots your bain also go outside. Your future self will thank you.
Reply by pluto
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TW- sewerside fr like the bullying for me it got so bad to the point where I tried committing in a school bathroom, so I always have that lovely memory haunting over me :)
Reply by r3creantz
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spoiler alert 4 middle schoolers
u will regret doing like 80% of the shit u do but it's a necessary step to flourish once u become older. don't date anybody, u have the rest of ur life 4 that. u will thank yourself lolz.
Reply by !! Karl / g0Z ]☆[ Masc !!
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honestly just wear whatever 6-7 grade if ur 8-whatever grade u can if u want but u might get poked at.Fitting in doesnt really matter (at my school),all u need to pay attention to is different classes and tons of homework XD
Reply by elynka
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I just read that and first of all: I absolutely feel you, I've been out of school since 2016 and school was hell. So I feared going back to school this year for my trainee. But let's bfr the youth now has changed a lot compared to 2011-2016. I feel like a lot of people are more open to new stuff. Still I have a lot of dumb people at my school and I just ignore the fck out of them. I learned to not care at all. I am just being nice to the teachers and tbh to everyone else, because I will help even the dumbest people. My full focus is on my work. I found a few "school friends", but that's it. My life is outside of school, school is only for my work, lmao. So my advice is probably to give a fck about everything and everyone and to do your thing.
Reply by TheJollyOne
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I've got some advice.
Don't date till you have graduated. Having a boyfriend or girlfriend will be too much considering you also have to focus on school work.
Reply by brook ⌖
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alright, here's my advice:
remember that it's all temporary. we all have our moments, and middle school is painfully embarrassing for everyone. try to make the most of it though, you'll regret it otherwise. you may face negativity often, but don't use that as an excuse to be negative yourself. finally, just do not get involved in relationships at this age. they never go anywhere.
Reply by mags
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to any middle schoolers reading this:
please get off the internet and go find something healthy and productive to do. before you know it, there will be no more time to do those fun, productive things. now is your chance, i promise.
Reply by EC_ColonelMD
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I usually regret a lot of 7th grade because I acted quite annoying and immature during a lot of it, both in and out of school. It was a bit better in 8th grade though.
Reply by spencer
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heres some tips for graduating middle kids; high school will not be like high school musical nobody will give a double damn shit about how you dress or look just participate in class and get credit and make sure to make friends and go out w them once in a while
for kids in mid school; theyre cruel but dont be afraid to express yourself; once again make friends and do things you enjoy like joining clubs
Reply by 𝖎𝖘𝖔𝖑𝖙'𝖘 𝖓𝖚𝖉𝖊𝖘
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DO NOT. UNDERESTIMATE. TO NOBODY. NEVER.
Don't be a bitch, be nice, you'll be much happier knowing that you don't talk shit about people.
Don't be influenced by Skins. It's not worth flirting with disaster. Have fun, there's nothing wrong with having lived a quiet adolescence.
Use protection, even if you are a girl, carry one with you.
Life is not about "finding" ourselves, but about creating ourselves. So have hobbies, they can guide you to find out what you like and what you want to do with your life.
You're at the best age to start with good habits, such as exercise, sleep schedules, study methods, finances, healthy eating, skin care, you feel me? Seize it
Whatever you say or do, they will forget it the next day.
Choose peace, don't let them make your head sick. You won't even find them again when you finish school.
So live your life, the opinion they have formed of you: it's none of your business.
Know your worth man, don't allow yourself to fall into the wrong hands. Trust me, you're so much more than that ugly guy who says he likes you without even knowing who you are, or that creepy adult god dammit. Identify what you want from these people and give it to yourself.
Take care of your female friends. Don't separate from your group. Go to the women's bathroom if you are in trouble, they gotchu.
If that person likes you, you will notice. If you're not sure, he doesn't like you. And if he doesn't like you, you'll know. Period. It's all an illusion until proven otherwise.
Don't trust your intuition on big reasonable rational decisions.
There are things that don't disappear because you pretend to leave them behind. For something to end, it has to be like this on both sides. So don't ghost and grow up xd
One loves as he can, not as the other wants. And it's not a crime to love what you can't explain.
Don't get involved with someone who is not satisfied with himself.
Talk to your parents, your older siblings. Ask questions.
Yeah that is, peace <3
Reply by Xx_Andy_G0re_xX
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Reply by Citrus/Lloyd
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My advice for middle schoolers as a sophomore in high school:
Don't let your schoolwork pile up because then you have to finish all of it later and it is just a pain. Also that won't slide in high school, plus a lot of teachers don't take late work so it's best to just get into the habit of completing work on time. Don't be stressed about high school. It's not as hard as a lot of people say it is, however it's not as easy as all the movies say it is either. Just do your work, join a lot of extracurriculars and other stuff to make friends, and be a good person. On that topic, be nice to your fellow students. Because a lot of them will be spending a lot of time with you over the years. So it's a good idea to not get on their bad sides. Overall just be a nice person! Also be yourself! Don't let anyone get under your skin or tell you who you are! Just have fun, do your work, and have fun!:))
Reply by Hubert
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Reply by dino
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loading screen tip: everyone around you is a jerk unless proven otherwise. don't even talk to them, they're just being mean for the sake of being mean.
sincerely, a middle schooler.
Reply by paranoidrealist
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real advice: DONT CHANGE YOURSELF FOR OTHER PEOPLE. DONT LET OTHERS OPINIONS AFFECT YOU. i know it's said so much and it's so much easier said than done but it's painfully true. i'm in my country's equivalent of tenth / eleventh grade rn, and im doing drama and debate for the first time, both things that require a lot of confidence in yourself, and im struggling a LOT. trust me, if you let others affect you, it will suck later on. do yourself a favour and live for yourself. and no one else. you do not owe anyone anything.
Reply by 𝓡𝓸𝓫𝓲𝓷˚₊‧꒰ა ☆ ໒꒱ ‧₊˚
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As a middle school myself, I agree. Teachers are all "be yourself" "you do you" in elementary. I got beat up cause I was myself last week
Reply by 12gauge
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middle school was prolly some of the worst years of my life in 7th ppl called me emo n i got into drama and in 8th it js got worse im entering highschool and the ppl who anatognized me left so idk
Reply by fvnkietillumunstrome
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I wasnt even myself most of the time.. more like an awful hybrid of mixed emotions and wanting people to like me. I would have been so cool if I had just been MYSELF yet I grew up in a town where alternative people and like.. anyone but them whities were skinned alive and turned into leather seats for their horse carriages...
sorry about that graphic rant but what im trying to say is if I could meet middle school me Id fist fight them and win
Reply by Rosario Justice
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Tips for middle schoolers coming from a highschool junior
- explore and find hobbies or sports you like. it helps set up a familiar community in high school
- don’t vape
- conceal your identity online better. make sure if needed you can disappear and recreate a new social media presence. that includes do not show your face or real name.
- academics are not as big of deal, but will reappear in highschool much harder
- except math. learn math