When I lived in Toronto they had great ones but they all closed down over the years, I went recently to a goth night in Cincinnati and it was dead. Still fun to dance though. 

It’s mostly an older crowd, I think it’s safe to say the irl scene is on its last legs. 

It's mostly in the big cities and its pretty dead for the younger generation. I think a youtuber said to host house parties if you can't enter a club... but let's be honest most parents are going to say no, and you damn well do not want to pick up all the trash other people leave behind.

in my experience i've been able to find cool "goth nite" events at typically-non-goth clubs. also, instagram is great for finding goth/metal/punk house show and small event flyers! bands and house venues will sometimes tag their flyers with things like "#(city or state initials) shows" or "#(city or state initials)musicscene". once you find one they're full of tags for other local bands and venues :)

i have the same problem :(

nowdays there arent really any goth clubs, especially in my country, but sometimes there are some goth events which is pretty cool! dont know how often they are though, ill ask my goth friend

The only goth club that I've seen in my city is a once a month event at a night club. I found this event and some basement shows by looking in my area with keyworks on Facebook. I have yet to go, but I'd recommend searching on social medias for local events

I don’t live there anymore, but there’s a couple goth clubs in Texas I got to go to in the last few years, as well as a good number of gothy events. I don’t know of any in my current state except I assume there are some in the largest city and maybe *some* of the larger college towns. Unfortunately I feel like you basically have to be a detective and also incredibly lucky to find goth events in a lot of places :(

I don’t live there anymore, but there’s a couple goth clubs in Texas I got to go to in the last few years, as well as a good number of gothy events. I don’t know of any in my current state except I assume there are some in the largest city and maybe *some* of the larger college towns. Unfortunately I feel like you basically have to be a detective and also incredibly lucky to find goth events in a lot of places :(

Anyone here ever go to The Castle by Tampa? Highly recommend for anyone ever in Florida. 80's night is a ton of fun. Lot's of interesting outfits, ended up dancing with someone dressed as Solaire of Astora last time. 

In Vancouver (BC) 

There's a few every month at a place called Red Room, and there is an online event group 
called BC Goth, Industrial, & EBM Community
which recently hosted a larger event at the Cobalt, I guess that will be the last one for the season.

They seem to be pretty on the ball, but I would honestly love to find a more underground scene that's welcoming, intimate and/or by word of mouth. 

Maybe even hosting your own event could be a great idea 🕷

I miss all the Goth nights in my city so I just go dressed as Goth as possible to other bars and events