I wanna say I was around 14 in highschool and I had a really close guy friend who was my first friend I made in highschool. We hung out all the time and it felt like a normal friendship to me. One day we were hanging out at his house and he had a swing set outside and I remember him leaning in to kiss me out of nowhere and I didn't break away and leaned into the kiss and that's how I knew I liked men. I was like "Oh! I liked that" lol

im not completely sure of what i am lol but for now i just say im bi

i waz sure i liked girlz thiz year when i actually kissed a girl

but i waz already questioning my sexuality since i waz 15 (im 18 now)

Well I am pan and I had a friend and she was a girl and IDC what gender she was I like her because she was so nice to me and now it’s has been 5 years and I miss her ): and for some people who don’t know what pan is it mean’s pan sexual is when a person is attracted to people regardless of their gender identity they could be attracted to people who are cisgender or transgender people who are non-binary like me gender non-conforming anyone really the point is gender does not play a role in who a pansexual person is attracted to is all about personality to a pan like me <3

I was always a little different, at least. I stuck out. 

I guess I was reading up on it and realized how much it sounded and felt like me. Gender fluid made me comfortable. I am gender fluid and genderfluid was me. 

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I had been lesbian prior. 

Pansexual just felt right

realized a little while ago I was bisexual it started when I was a kid and i used to watch movies and when people would talk about their movie crushes they used to be boys and girls also the time my old best friend she asked me out and that was the first time i like though about it i grew up religious and its frowned apond in my community which sucks. 

I'm bi. When I was little (like 5-6 years old) I've always had a crush on girls and always wanted to date a girl, but I was on denial. And as I grew older, I started to become attracted to boys and that's how I knew I was bi :P

When I was younger I use to think dating was something I had to do so I looked for a guy but when I didn't really see them the way other girls did I thought I wasn't normal, when I looked at this one girl I new I loved her, that's how I found out also that girl had a boyfriend

I had just broken up with my first (and only) boyfriend when I realised how extremely uninterested I was in boys. I think it was in 3rd grade.

For me it was during middle school. I met this really nice guy (well just call him friendo) and we got pretty close throughout the year, after a little while of knowing him he, asked me out. I was super confused and didn't know how to respond, since my parents thought me that it was only men and woman, he was super understanding and explained the LGBTQ community to me, rest assured I thought of myself as Pansexual, since later on I had interest in men, trans, and women members. and that's how I became a part of this amazing community!!!!!

I went through the "I don't like anyone so I'm pan" to aroace phase,did a lot of research after realising aroace was a thing(⁠─⁠.⁠─⁠|⁠|). I was like 10 when i realised and lots of people are still telling me that I'm too young to know but I'm certain I'm aroace it's been years after all

I remember it was when I was about to enter the 7th grade and I was YouTube and was just watching wlw compilation for some reason. Then I remembered my ex best friend and that's when I realized. At first I thought I was lesbian, but later on I switched to being bisexual because I still liked guys. But this guy in my 7th grade class said he was pansexual and people made fun of him. so I curious what that meant so I went home and searched it up. then I thought to myself "would I like someone if they were trans or genderfluid?" and I said , "no I wouldn't care, I would still love them". so here I am, still in the closet and one cousin knows about it. never dated. 

btw whenever I saw her at school, I would smile under my mask nonchalantly. we still talk to this day, but I never told her I had a crush on her in 7th grade.

So basically I was playing Metal Gear Solid 2 about 2 years ago, and i kinda just went: "huh, this guy is caked up ngl. OH WAIT IM BRICKED UP. anyway, back to peak fiction." i pretty much came out to my friends immediately (no one gave an actual fuck) and never came out to my family, not because they'd be homophobic/biphobic (theyre incredibly inclusive and leftist), i just feel like my sexuality shouldnt matter to them. also im too lazy to come out.

I grew up with this person since first grade, and we have been neighbors and each other's best friends for 12 years already. I grew up catholic with homophobic parents so it took me years to get out of the denial phase and let me tell you when I found out everything made sense. I remember adoring this person and imagining them to love songs but the scenes were platonic intimacy (I was a kid so of course) and I always held them in high regard, they were my entire world. I hated hugging when it was prolonged, but they became the exception to the point where I looked forward to even the slightest touch. 

Highschool was the pivot for me, all these intense feelings I labeled as queerplatonic were questioned as romantic when they started becoming more flirty. We had gags like leaning in for kisses put pulling away last minute and generally flirting in the friend-joking way most people do. We even fake dated when they wanted revenge on one of their exes, put they acted the same way even at home. And for the first time in my life, I wondered if I could be selfish and have them for myself instead of supporting from the sidelines. I knew I could make them happy. Hand holding, cuddling, late night talks and crying, all of it and maybe more than we dared to do. But they see me as a sister and only like men so its not really worth telling them all of this, I just hope it will go away with time. They are the only person I loved this way, even the slightest bit.

When I was younger and I watched movies, I always loved looking at the girls and thought about how pretty they were, and when I saw the guy I wanted to BE him because I thought he was cool and wanted to steal his gender (jk jk, I was just a lesbian tomboy at heart). I used to think I was bisexual because of that, but then I realized that I never wanted to be in a romantic relationship a man and all that other stuff that goes with it ifykwim