can someone explain to me why BOTD is bad? nobody really told me

Because Davie Vanity is a pedo ))):

Since someone already answered your main question, I figured I'd expand on it. Yes, unfortunately, Dahvie and kids don't go together (pretty ironic, maybe that's what he was hoping for). But Jayy has also been under fire for supposedly standing by Dahvie in many bad things he did, including the U Dun Goofed parody video. Rumors have also spread that Jayy knows more than he has revealed publicly and has deleted his drag Twitter account (he has another career too, but I doubt I'm allowed to talk about it on here) to avoid further backlash. He also continues to block fans (myself included) and stay out of the Vanity drama. 

dahvie vanity is a known pedophile

Dahvie is a pedo

dahvie is a pedo and he did other horrible things to young girls. He also abused jayy :(

the lead singer dahvie is a pedo >:T and i believe that some of botdf songs are about pedophilia (?)

ummm....because dahvie vanity molested tweens and teens? and still follows 14 year old girls on instagram to this day. hes a danger to society 

Cause Dahvie Vanity is a pedo and was reported to the police by several women.

Dahvie Vanity is a disgusting pedo.  >:(

Dahvie was a pedo if you cut him out of the picture its fine

Lets just say Dahvie got away with some pedo shit.....

dahvie is a known pedo & groomer, theres lotz of proof on twt and tiktok from the victims

In addition to Davie being a pedophile, they also said the n word in Yo Ho

• Dahvie Vanity is a serial child rapist
• He abused Jayy Von Monroe, groomed him finanically since Jayy was only 18
• He refused to stop touring when Jayy was feeling ill, turned out he was HIV positive and lack of medical care would have caused it to become AIDS, making it a death sentence for Jayy
• Dahvie ALSO withheld the HIV medication from Jayy
• Dahvie underpayed Jayy for all of his hard work and used him living in the same house as Dahvie as a form of "payment" to Jayy (basically making Jayy completely dependent on him or else he would lose literally everything to his name)
• Dahvie stole credit from Jayys lyrics
• Dahvie also constantly plagerized from other bands (Otep, Skillet, Bright Eyes, Blaqk Audio, and more)
• Dahvie would fly underage fans in from their home states to stay at his house constantly and or Dahvie would spend time in hotels with them in his hometown and on tour doing terrible things to them
• TW GRAPHIC SA// He orally r*ped girls so hard their mouths would bleed and he made a girl watch herself get r*ped in front of a mirror
• He constantly stole art for merch and promo material
• He never paid the people that worked for him
• He also wrote a horrendous slanderous dis track about a 11 year old he r*ped and released it on their birthday

dahvie might be a bad person which he is the music hella slaps

Their lyrics often considered immature and cringy especially on their earlier works, the beats are great though.