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question for littles: are you a voluntary or involuntary age regressor? or are you both?


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Reply by madelyn scott

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im a voluntary little!! thoughh sometimes its very hard to just ignore my want to regress. especially if i hyperfixate on it which i can do a lot.....but i just have to remind myself i gotta do big madelyn stuff first before i can be little!!


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Reply by The Clown System

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Voluntary!! I usually do it to have some fun and its also a coping mechanism! :D


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Reply by ☁︎︎.•Avery•.☁︎︎

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A bit of boths!! Do it cause of stress mostly


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Reply by Aki

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im kinda both, it depends on how i feel overall. theres days ill regress randomly, and i dont really like it because it sometimes happens at school. and when i purposely regress is better for me because i can use it as a stress reliever.


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Reply by Ascher

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I’m both! Sometimes I do it when I know I can relax on purpose.. but other times I don’t realize I have until it’s been pointed out to me by my twin. 


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Reply by Juli ☆ Rivera

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im involentarry and been doing it for a lonngg time xd


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Reply by xXpr1nc3_puddl3zXx

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I'm both a voluntary and involuntary regressor! it just depends on the environment I'm in and how I'm feeling that day.


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Reply by Tobias

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I’m both mainly involuntary tho


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Reply by Ashlee/Ashton

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i voluntarily regress mostly, but when i'm under a lot of anxiety and when i'm in overwhelming environments (dunno how else to word it but for ex, very packed places or when things like lights and textures are too much to handle basically) i do it involuntarily  


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Reply by 🦠slime🦠

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i go little usually for fun sometimes accidentally i want to slip when im stressed out but that makes me even more worked up and its just not good for me


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Reply by riv

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both of dem, sometimes I regress randomly but sometimes I do it when I want to


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Reply by bunnie <3

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im both !! i use it as a coping mechanism :3


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Reply by kanah <3

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i think im both! sometimes i put myself into little space when im having a bad day, but usually positive or sometimes negative things trigger me into regressing


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Reply by dais <3

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a bit of both but lately its been a bit more involuntary !


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Reply by Littlemoo_

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[: im both , but mainly involuntary . it's hard during my life , such as school , when it switches to littlespace . but , i've gotten through this far !! ^^ :]


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Reply by L0nd0n<3

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I voluntarily regress and i think ive only involuntarily regressed about 3 times.


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Reply by Karamatsu'sFav_

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i would say both!


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Reply by 𐦟niko𐦟

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mostly involuntary, if im super happy and i feel safe around somebody, ill slip. sadly, i havent felt that way in a while :(


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Reply by Gracie

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Both. I try to be mature and responsible when necessary and a little when I need some fun, but other times I crack under the pressure and can't think or reason like a grown-up at all so I have to act like a child in order to cope.


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Reply by darcy doom

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it depends, i'd say i've mostly gotta make myself regress


sounded fun lol but i'm more of a babysitter cg


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Reply by binki<3

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im both!! sometimes i regress to help cope w depression and anxiety but a lot of the times i find myself accidentally slipping when im out w my bf/cg 


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Reply by itty bitty pup

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Im both! i have autism, depression, ADHD and anxiety, and also BPD, so it can be hard regressing somtimes


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Reply by ˜”*°•.puppy_boy.•°*”˜

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I am both! Due to my reason for regressing, involuntary ones happened a lot when I was new to regression but as the years have gone by I have had many more voluntary ones (*^w^*)


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Reply by xXGr3ys0nXx

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For me it's both! I never got the childhood of a boy so I live it out now! Plus I had some stuff happen to me when I was younger.


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Reply by Xav

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I'm both. If it's voluntarily I tend to be a bit younger (~4-6) but if it's involuntary it's usually to 14.


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Reply by Sad Bears Playroom

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Tiny- both it's mostly impure involuntary tho :(

Cg- I dunno really just kinda started taking care of my friends when they where tiny one day now poof here we are


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Reply by grayson

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both! but more recently (impure) involuntary 


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Reply by Sunsh1nez ⯌☼⯌ Arcade

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involunaryu >:(((


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Reply by Th4t-Loserr

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I iz both involuntary and voluntary!!! :3


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Reply by Dinic 💫

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mostly involuntary, but I can do it voluntary if I want to!


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Reply by Mel>.<

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Im a Voluntary little <3
When im in cg mode, I kinda found out by taking care of my boyfriend when he regresses


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Reply by xXTrevor_TristianXx

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I am mosetly volentary, however when your brain just kinda, goes back you can get stuck...


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Reply by vinny

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lil bit of both tbh... tho more often than not it's voluntary


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Reply by piaaaa

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tun poco de los dos, la mayoria de veces involuntario pero aprendi a controlarme porque despues las personas me dicen cosas feas. 


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Voluntary. I do it because I miss my childhood a lot


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Reply by kird-chan

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When I'm sad, I do it involuntarily but when I'm REALLY happy then it's voluntary


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Bit of boths! I go small when stressy or ahhh bad thinks an we has other headmates who I can talk wis around my age <3333 


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Reply by 🍒Cherry🍒

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I think both, sometimes I wake up already with that attitude or I get that attitude in moments of stress or downs, there are other times when I feel really functional and I don't assimilate much if I don't do it on purpose or not (because I dissociate excessively), so I'm not very sure, I'm sorry..(*´ー`*)


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