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I mostly see people talk about their comphet in terms of thinking they desire unattainable men, but do any other lesbians have comphet in terms of wanting men to want you? I don’t really ever think I might want to date men, or trick myself into feeling attraction to men, but so often I will fantasise about men confessing their love to me, or men finding me attractive or appealing, or men having crushes on me. Does anyone else share these feelings?
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Reply by ilona (♡°▽°♡)
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Reply by Juli ☆ Rivera
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yes i feel u exatcly!! when ever i "liked" a guy, i didnt focus much of what i wanted, mostly what he wants. really the only thing i wanted was instant pleasure, validation and attention...
and like something about making guys fall for me felt so good?? id "like" a guy alot and be obbsessed with him and id do ANYTHING to make him fall for me but as soon as he conffessed i lost all feelings and i wasnt having fun anymore, but at the same time i really liked being wanted and desired even tho i had no intention of returning it.
idk its complicated and i feel bad for all my past lovers TwT