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Is there a book that completely knocked you out of your boots, and your life was never the same after it? 



When I was like 16, I read Awareness by Anthony De Mello, and it first got me depressed, and that completely changed me. I guess it would have less effect on me if I was older, but still.


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Reply by Robot

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"The book was a huge influence. I was reading a book about depression. And I was like "oh shit, what's going on with this?" And I was like "well I'm going to be depressed, and I don't want to go back to my life, I don't care what happens to me." I'm just so glad I did that, I don't want it to be the way it was, because that would just make the whole thing more interesting and more depressing."


I've been on a lot of depression medications, and it's just a matter of getting used to the fact I've been through it and getting used to the fact I'm not in a place like this anymore, so you just sort of get to that place where you don't feel any sense of anything at all, and it feels like a different kind of depression."


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Reply by Ardent Melody

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The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz radically altered my worldview. My mom and sister both recommended it to me, and I was little hesitant about the Toltec spirituality factor, because I'm wildly atheistic, but I'm so glad I read it. It's the kind of advice that is easy to learn and hard to master, but even with imperfect mastery, it's remarkably helpful.


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Reply by Kori

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"We all looked up" 


I was in a christian cult and was severely depressed and suicidal for a year straight at the time. Constantly threatened with the end of the world and armageddon, i was living every day scared. 

This book is about a meteor or asteroid making its way towards earth, the entire book is built around how people would act in that situation, all the things they'd do if it were really a given amount of time before everyone died. 
It explores relationships with partneres, family. Its about making the last moments mean something rather than hiding out and being in fear. 

When i finished reading that book, i cried because of how much it paralleled to my own life. That was the first stage of me waking up and escaping. 


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Reply by Tyson

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And The Ass Saw The Angel by Nick Cave 

I picked up a copy of this on a whim and I'm not even a massive Nick Cave fan but this book is amazing. 
It's the only book that I couldn't wait to finish just so I could start it again. 
Every paragraph is written so well and feels like poetry and perfectly encapsulates the grimness of the story and the characters. It is worth checking out if you're onto darker stuff but it's so well written that even when you're reading a grimy bit it it so well expressed and fun to read. 


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Reply by H I M E

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No Longer Human by Osamu Dazai

It's a pretty depressing book, but it was also so fascinating. I just couldn't put it down. It felt like a true look at a person's soul, and a person I was the complete opposite of, which made it all the more interesting to read.


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Reply by andrew

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the boy in the striped pajamas 

honestly overall its an incredibly sad book. cried A LOT. 


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Reply by paige lynne

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I've been really interested in tearjerkers lately, so heres a couple:

No Longer Human - my god this books depressing. 

My Absolute Darling - absolutely GOD TIER. amazingly written. hits close to home if you have any history with abuse/SA, especially by a family member, so trigger warning for that

The Way I used to Be - another trigger for SA, the author perfectly writes self sabotage and hypersexuality after being SAd and its insanely good.

also, i really enjoyed all of rupi kaurs books. a lot of people think shes just cringy tumblr poetry, and some of her poems could definitely fit that. but her works genuinely changed my life, and if youre into poetry shes worth a read.

also, I have no mouth and I must scream changed my writing style a lot. Another great read, really short.


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Reply by yak

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I can think of a few actually.

The Little Prince

The Dispossessed -- The strongest argument for anarchism in existence, probably.

The Idiot -- I know everyone feels this way, but in this book I very much identified with Muishkin. I read this during my lunch break at work and the characters all felt so alive that sometimes after lunch nothing felt as real.


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Reply by apolaustic

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Then first one was White Fang by Jack London, I heard it first around age 5 and I became obsessed with Wolves, which led me to watch a documentary about the Sawtooth pack and become really obsessed with protecting wolves and learning about them. 

when I was like 8 I read a series called Chronicles of Ancient Darkness and that radically changed my personality for a really long time, idk if the books were actually good but my friends and I would literally only talk about it, and would constantly quote the characters. It was probably really annoying to others. 



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Reply by str4nge4s4ngels

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Last winter I read Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep by Phillip K. Dick, which I wasn't expecting to impact me as deeply as it did. I then read J.M. Coetzee's The Lives of Animals right after and for some reason that combination altered my brain chemistry.

Annihilation by Jeff Vandermeer is also really intense and highly recommended. 


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Reply by xORionx

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white rabbit red wolf this story is a lie 

an amazing book nothing has quite topped it. i read it a couple years ago because my school was doing this christmas reading thing where they wrapped books in wrapping paper and then you had to read it. my friends were all like “take this book its easy” since im dyslexic and generally, up until that point, did not like reading. my intuition told me to choose that one though and im so glad i did. after that i read all thats left in the world and again it was amazing really really good


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Reply by _heartz4greenday_

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Probably Homestuck


lol


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Reply by k

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the stranger by albert camus. .i think there's a special bond between 14 yr old me and this book that can't be described in words . 


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Reply by Lucy_Louuuu

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So B. it

Basically its about this girl who lives with her disabled mom and neighbor. She goes on a journey of self discovery to find her family and the origin of a word her mom keeps using, "Soof". Had me fukin weeping at the end, its tecnicallt a kinds book but it goes so damn hard.


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Reply by mykka

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 Suicidas (Raphael Montes)

Desde o começo do livro ja é apresentado topicos importantes, como pedofilia, depressão e problemas familiares. Mas o final realmente me surpreendeu, não esperava um livro tão bom,com um spoiler bem escrito e imaginável^_~

 O livro me fez mudar muito a minha mente e pensar mais sobre pautas importantes!!

Recomendo muito! Além de ser um livro nacional brasileiro.

 


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Reply by PERCY!

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Hell Followed With Us was certainly the best book I've ever read and it influenced my writing style. This is coming from a guy who named himself after Percy Jackson.


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Reply by dkDulceX

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sin duda seria el retrato de Dorian Gray de Oscar Wilde, me ocasiono un miedo irracional a envejecer y me hizo cuestionarme hasta donde puede llegar la vanidad?


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Reply by Starrzy :3

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Radio Silence by Alice Oseman

the things i would do to read it for the first time again that book literally altered my brain chemisty


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Reply by tati ㄊ

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a monster calls by patrick ness

so sad. i just know that i will think of this book later on in life, if and when i am to face illness of loved ones.


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Reply by echo

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a house in the cerulean sea by tj klune.

so wholesome and queer with found family and an amazing message <3


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Reply by Lore, The Mouse

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Invisible Cities by Italo Calvino restored my sense of wonder and propelled me towards pursuing my undergraduate and (later) my master's degree.




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Reply by 𝚢𝚊𝚖𝚒.𝚛𝚒𝚙 >ω<

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Der Steppenwolf by Herman Hesse.

I got hit with a post game depression after I finished it, I'm literally Harry Haller


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Reply by палыч

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"Man's Search for Meaning" by Victor Frankl. I probably was too young to really understand it when I read it, but some ideas managed to get into my head. highly recommend it.


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Reply by KH330

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The Midnight Library, by Matt Haigh. 


I know authors like Haigh have lots of life-changing books BUT the one that really left a mark on my life was this one. 100% recommended.


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Reply by JΛYDIП

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The stranger by Albert Camus

Every douche and his mother starts off with this book but for good reason. The power to rebell against the absurdism in life by form of continuing to live. What beauty. 


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Reply by DAF24 (only 18+!!)

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Percy Jackson and The Lightning Thief, this book was the first one I've read and actually enjoyed reading and it made me want to read all the other books. Since the day I finished the complete saga, my reading habbits continued with other books, it changed my life by making me enjoy reading :)


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Reply by паY4ьи k0sтN

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one of the books that had a big impact on me was "The Gray House" (Дом в котором)


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Reply by vee :P

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THE LITTLE PRINCE by Antoine de Saint-exubery or smth


changed the way i see the world

my interactions

and the way i view growing up

no kidding one of the best books ever written in my opinion


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Reply by biohazahrous

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when i was 12 i read on the summerhouse steps by anne frank and it totally changed the way i viewed people and familial relationships and my love for weird ass men and justifiably evil women and scheming!!!!!!! it taught me that u can never do too much and tho i havent reread it in a whillllllllllllle i will always yap abt it to whomever is willing to listen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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Reply by Shanessa

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The Outsiders by S.E Hinton changed me, when i was in 3rd year and I read it for the first time I really got into reading and I was nonstop reading classics


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Reply by SquishJaice

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I Had That Same Dream Again by Yoru Sumino really touched me when I read it for the first time in high school. It's about a 4th grader named Nanoka who is assigned to discover what happiness means to her in her language arts class. Over the course of the story she makes friends with three women during her after school walks; a teen girl, a young woman, and an old woman. She tries to understand each of these very different people, all while dealing with her own troubles in school, such as standing up to bullies who pick on her classmate for liking to draw.

At the end of the story, it's revealed that the three women Nanoka befriended were actually versions of herself from the future if she had given up on her struggles, and she learns that people can choose their own happiness by seeking out opportunities to grow as a person rather than hiding from the things that scare them.

This story really helped me have a different outlook on life, and it helped me have more courage to be myself and stick up for the things that are important to me. My copy of the book is so worn down from constantly rereading it too, haha!


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Reply by Jadwiu

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Definitivamente El Club de los Perdedores.

Lloré mucho con ese libro, aunque el final feliz no fue lo que más me hizo reflexionar, sino más bien el sufrimiento real de las personas acosadas, el dolor que les causa, el no poder expresarse adecuadamente por miedo, y que todos los acosados se unieran y crearan su propia comunidad donde podrían expresarse libremente. Ese libro de casi 500 páginas me deprimió durante un buen tiempo, y no he llegado ni a 15 years old, pero aún así, mi mente estaba tan abierta a él que sintió que era yo quien realmente lo estaba viviendo.


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Reply by itks.ass

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EL RELATO DE UN ASESINO DE MARIO MENDOZA

Hermano fue literalmente mi golpe de realidad de como veo al mundo aun que yo ya había leído bastantes libros del mismo autor que son igual de crudos pero por alguna razón saber que la historia es un relato de la persona que vivió esos hechos y lo que hizo me hizo dar cuenta de lo raro que es el mundo pues hay todo tipo de personas y problemas en la vida y la forma en como los llevo pues no fue la correcta.


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Reply by Teo

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El gato que salvó los libros.

Comparado a otros en este post, no creo que mi cambio fuera tan "wow", pero como alguien que siempre fue enseñado que un libro debe ser cuidado y mantenido como si fuera un trofeo sí lo hizo.
Los objetos son solo objetos, los libros también y si no cumplen su función es triste, aprendí a apreciar los rayones, las dedicatorias, el abrir el libro a más no poder, compartirlo y llevarlo a todas partes... Siento que rompió algo que tenía restringido, tanto como con los libros como en otros temas y me ayudó bastante. Uno siempre puede aprender algo nuevo :).


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Reply by grynsal

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"A Happy Death" by Albert Camus.


I think it changed the way I thought about death. A bonus would be "The Stranger" by the same author because there was a part in which he talks about how you could be in the worst situations, but will eventually end up getting used to it. Basically, you can get used to anything, but also that death isn't so scary. Living your life how you want to live your life is more important.


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Reply by Rose

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quem é voce, alaska?


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Reply by throughthehosiery

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cioran's on the heights of despair


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Reply by ivan

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"La nausea" Jean-Paul Sartre


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Reply by v32

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Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy changed my life just because of how funny it was and it definitely helped me through some rough times, comedy heals the soul!


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Reply by Park Eun-ji

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"La bendición del oficial del cielo", puede que suene tonto pero cambio la forma en la que veía el amor, ya que nos muestra el como el protagonista ha tenido, sin saberlo, a alguien que siempre lo acompaño y apoyo a lo largo de los años a pesar de que no sabía de su existencia o cometía errores muy graves, este tipo de amor trasciende de lo humano.

Pero también nos muestra a lo largo del libro el como, a pesar de que los demás hablen mal o te critiquen, no dejarse llevar por esas opiniones y solo ser tu mismo, ser de la forma en que tu te sientas cómodo sin miedo de lo que digan los demás.

100% recomendado, es una lectura larga, pero vale 100% la pena ya que tiene una buena historia y te hace sentir un mar de emociones.


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