Can You Really Forgive If You Can't Forget?

Not everyone deserves forgiveness in the first place but you most definitely can forgive but not forgive. I've found that you can forgive someone by understanding that they didn't mean harm and/or will do different. You don't have to forget whatever they did but being understanding with them can help. Of course this is different for everyone and being understanding doesn't fit into every situation. 

It depends on the reason why you don't forget. You must examine you're heart why you don't want to forget. Also if you're not going to forget, you'll never move on and forgive. Forgetting is part of forgiving.

honestly i've never really forgiven someone i've just stopped caring abt what they did at a certain point