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Asexuality & Aromanticism Questionnaire

"Right nowyou’re confronting the things that you have been absent‑mindedly accepting,” 

Takahashi explains, noting that this questionnaire helped him face himself when he first realized his identity, and he hopes it can help Sakuko do the same. 


[Only the responses that can be answered are required.]

1. Do you think you have romantic feelings?

  • I think so.
  • A little, I think.
  • Neither.
  • Not very much, I think.
  • I don’t think so. 


2. Have you ever wanted to (or thought about) “dating” a specific person?

  • I have.
  • I have a little.
  • Neither.
  • Not much.
  • No. 


3. Have you ever wanted to (or thought about) “monopolizing” a particular person?

  • I have.
  • I have a little.
  • Neither.
  • Not much. 
  • No.


4. Have you ever found others sexually attractive?

  • I have.
  • I have a little.
  • Neither.
  • Not much.
  • No.


5. Do you have a dislike for romantic feelings directed at you?

  • I do. 
  • I do a little.
  • Neither.
  • Not much.
  • No. 


6. Do you hate touching other people?

  • I do. 
  • I do a little.
  • Neither.
  • Not much.
  • No.


7. Do you hate being asked about your love life by others?

  • I do.
  • I do a little.
  • Neither.
  • Not much.
  • No.


8. Do you hate being asked about your sex life by others?

  • I do.
  • I do a little.
  • Neither.
  • Not much.
  • No.


9. Do you hate listening to other people’s romantic stories?

  • I do. 
  • I do a little. 
  • Neither.
  • Not much.
  • No.


11. Do you hate listening to other people’s sexual stories?

  • I do.
  • I do a little.
  • Neither.
  • Not much.
  • No. 


12. Do you want to live with other people?

  • I think so.
  • A little, I think.
  • Neither.
  • Not very much, I think.
  • I don’t think so.


13. Have you ever had a lover or partner? If so, please write down the number of people. (Free answer)


14. Did you have any ‘’trouble’’ with your sexuality? Please write in detail if you like. (Free answer)

[“the word ‘trouble’ here has more of a connotation of an incident or trauma, rather than just general "trouble with your sexuality” - @ordon-princess]



ATTENTION: while I would appreciate comments from the other aro/aces out therebe aware your answers to this questionnaire may contain sensitive information with potential for abuse.  

Please, do not publicly comment your answers.

This survey is intended for private personal realizations and careful disclosure to trustworthy individuals at your own discretion.  Thank you. 


English translation : kyanitedragon

SOURCE: Kosienu Futari 


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