This was always a little confusing to me, so I am glad someone made it!
Here is a doc that contains the entire timeline of the book series, not the TV show.
DOES CONTAIN SPOILERS
also links to extra stories are here, including "My Dinner with Hayden"
https://docs.google.com/document/d/111zBcx_MJC1z437BaQx2WgND5yDEQsR3JE57u88RrPU/edit?pli=1&tab=t.0#heading=h.2pcgxck1ckhp
(I did not make this, I found it on Reddit)