Struggling with dyslexia in adulthood

So I got diagnosed with dyslexia when I was 13 years old and it’s always been kind of a struggle because no one really understands what it is and what you struggle with as a an individual. I have memory problems, I can’t write or spell, i stutter reading and I need more time to process things in my head.

I always got picked on for “reading slow “in school and the teachers couldn’t really help me much. My own family till this day can’t really understand how I think stuff through, even at my recent jobs my colleagues and bosses don’t really understand and they just kind of label me as slow or dumb when I’m not slow or dumb. I just need to learn things out of much slower pace, but I do get there.

Any tips to help or anyone who relates?