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So there is this girl thats been copying me

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I am not going to say her name nor many details, we have this "we get along but we dont like each other" relashionship. We talked from time to time n stuff.

The problem is that she is copying me, and I dont have a problem with that, but she is doing it out of envy and stuff, because, as I said before, she didn't liked me and I also didn't liked her, it was mutual and it has been proven a lot, but she kept telling her friends (wich arent a lot but she was kinda well liked) that I was the one copying her, wich wasn't, most of the things I did, were done years later than when I wanted because of my strict parents.

Like I literally cut my bangs (wich my mom didn't ley me do that), she also cutted her bangs, I started dressing more y2k/goth (because my parents finally let me), she began dressing exactly the same and bought the same accesories as me, I started straigning my hair, she also did that, I started listening to metal, she also started listening to metal, I started decorating my notebook, she did the same! She also even copied my username!. It was absolutely nuts the coincidences.

And now when the copying stuff got worse I finally graduated and switched schools, alr, but since I have an art ig wich is public and I have a bunch of followers there she not only began to see most of my stories from one of her alt accs, but she also began to copy how I edit! Wich for those who don't know, my editing is very different from other online artists. So as the responsable person I am, I blocked her 456643 accs.

Tbh Idk what to do because she creeps the hell out of me and like thank godness she lives far away from me lol.


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What you’re describing isn’t normal coincidence or harmless inspiration, and it makes sense that it unsettles you.Β 

You handled it appropriately by blocking her and putting distance between you, and honestly that’s the healthiest move here.Β 

At this point, the best thing you can do is keep firm boundaries, avoid engaging or checking up on her, and continue doing your own thing without reacting, because people like this often feed off comparison and attention. The fact that she’s far away and no longer in your daily life is a big relief, and as long as she isn’t contacting or threatening you directly, focusing on protecting your space and peace is the right call.


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