Victim Mindset

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I think that, thoose persons need a professional help cause literally most part of their lifes is reall miserable, i said this cause i talk and know for persons that complain for eveything and i know that their lifes are so boring, repetitive, and like that miserable, but i think they can change and i really wanna help them and most people has to help them more if are people close to them but we can help them not as a rule mora like a help with goood intentions

Antonn10 I also think people who always blame their problems on others could benefit from counseling or other special help. But, people have to recognize their actions that causes problems and then accept help that is offered. That doens't mean that we need to stop trying to help someone, but just be aware that those we try to help may put us in that group that they think needs to take the blame for their problems. 

I think all of us on some occasions see how others have negatively affected our life. However, while we can't control others actions, we can control our reactions. We can try to find solutions to the problem (best to pray to God for guidance in what to do) or we can sit down and feel sorry for ourselves. Regretably, some people are so caught up in their pity party that it is impossible for them to see reason. Also, people with health problems can become extremely depressed and sometimes the medicine that is prescribed affects them negatively instead of the way intended and that adds another level of complexity.

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