Heyyyo :]
I'm new here, to this website as a whole, and for a while now I have wanted to reduce my time spent on social medias like tiktok or instagram, but i struggle to. I guess it's because for one i feel like I CAN'T quit, all of my friends speak on insta, and sometimes if I'm lucky on snapchat, but most of the people my age use instagram, so i feel like I can't quit because then i wouldn't be able to communicate with them...
that's my first reason, the second reason is that I am a HUGE fan of an actress, and like most actress she mostly publish things on insta, and i want to be able to see what she post and be warned when she post something but for that i need insta. As for tiktok i also use it to watch this actress tiktok but i mainly watch fan edit of her, recently i have been able to spend less time on tiktok so right now i would say my main problem in insta. You might wonder why i don't just...stop looking at the actress, and it's an understandable question, but i "need" those fan interection. To resume things a bit, i'm autistic and i get hyperfixation, it just so happens that my last hyperfixation is on this actress, looking at her films or at fan edits makes me feels more rested to have real social interactions (i don't know if that makes sense but that's how i work), or it helps me greatly if I had a bad social interactions so I can't really just stop looking at the fan edits.
I try to limit my phone use by using an app that blocks most social medias for defined hours a day but i can always just disable the app so it doesn't always work
I had thought about maybe gettin a fliphone that CAN run insta and tiktok but does so badly so i just wouldn't want to use them but I can't find a phone that does that in France. And while in my ideal world i would like to stop having a phone at all, it's quite literally impossible. I need my phone to go to school, a few of my teachers make us take mini quizzes on our phones and i need my phone to access the cafeteria :[
Does anyone have any tips to lay off instagram? I would be very thankfull :3