Is there any hobbies which are interesting and are free?

Question

I'm unbelievably bored of being alive and would like a new hobby, but I find that the lists of hobbies you'll find online are either dull or mention things which requires massive amounts of money which I don't have. I'm not quite sure what to do, because for the last year I've done nothing but read and I find myself hating books due to it being my whole life.

It's like everything is unbearable or empty for me.

I used to draw all the time when I was younger, but for the last four, nearly five, years I haven't been able to stand doing it. I tried again recently and still disliked it.

Crafting also sucks. So does writing.

I did learn how to code years ago and I don't care for it or any technology really.

There isn't anything which I care about anymore to join a fandom for, not to mention the fact that I've always felt unwelcome in every fandom.

I don't care for music. I used to love MCR but no matter what I listen to now, I feel nothing but emptiness.

I can't stand sports, exercise and any outdoor activity.

I have tried learning languages in the past and am currently learning Norwegian, but it's not something I enjoy at all.

No videogame is fun to play, just a way to pass time.

I don't know what to do anymore, because it seems like I enjoy nothing. It seems as though I wasn't born to have a good life.

Report Topic

Answer

To be completely honest, it sounds like what you're describing is depression or at the very least dysthymia which is basically just a milder form of depression. I speak from personal experience when offering this perspective. If this is the case then getting to the root cause is really the best course of action for you. If nothing brings you joy anymore, especially things in the recent past you know you used to love, then it's worth looking into getting some help. I'd suggest seeking out a counselor, therapist, or another professional you could talk to who could provide insight and help you return to enjoying life again.

I do hope you can find something new in the short term to help you pass the boredom and maybe reinvigorate your outlook on things. I know it would require having access to the instrument, but have you tried playing and creating music rather than just listening to it? You might be able to borrow a guitar or drums or keyboard from a friend or even the local library. Learning music software and making digital music is a more accessible creative outlet too although I see you're not as keen on technology.

I wish the best for you and hope you find something that works.

Permalink Report Reply

Answer

ya tried yoyos? they're pretty cool, i like em.

« Life Forum

Is there any hobbies which are interesting and are free?

Posted by Stan

2 Replies

Reply by Tick

Reply by Foreign Mammal