.so basically I got this dumb voice back in my head saying ppl won't be interested in me cuz either I don't rlly have any hobbies besides drawing or cuz im not into some underground cool thing nobody knows abt. and it's getting louder. so what do I do? any advices?
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I feel like im not interesting enough,, what do i do
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Reply by BOYCANNIBAL 🥩
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hey, i just wanna say i think you are really interesting! but if u need help i recommend find hobbies it doesnt have 2 be rlly niche hobbies, honestly anything u are good at and other people arent so much people will find that rly cool then you will 2!! everyone is rly interesting in their own ways and i find u rly cool and interesting, so dont even worry abt it c: drawing is a rly cool skill, im not great at drawing so its actually rly nice u can do that :d
Reply by dikky
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ur so nice, ty !! :J yeah I think I should try doing some things I haven't yet, maybe 0ne day I'll find something good 4me (´◡`)
Reply by BOYCANNIBAL 🥩
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Reply by B3ANSss
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Hey man!! Please don't evee feel down about that, everyone had difderents thing they can/like/do you don't have to like something everyones like, Being what you are is wayyyy more cooler!
Reply by dikky
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Yeah ikr ;] I just feel like all the ppl I've met have at least something to offer, like a reason why others like them? My friends, they all have something cool that makes them unique, when I'm just...there. And ig this is why I have the feeling like I'm not unique enough for people to be genuinely interested in me (つㅅ・` )
Reply by Arthuronfire
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its hard to see yourself from other people's perspective sometimes. just
know that usually you are your own biggest critic and a lot of the
things you notice in yourself are not what other people see at all. on
that same note, other people are not all that matters. comparing yourself to other people can fuck you over a lot of the time, because other people have completely different shit going on, which makes it unfair for you to try to hold yourself to that standard.
also, i dont know you, but i clicked on this topic because i fucking love I Want To Eat Your Guts. I think youre interesting already because i never see other fans. this is a cliche thing to say but every human being has their own merits and qualities that nobody else has. Just existing as a person is interesting enough in itself, in my opinion. Nobody thinks or talks or composes themselves the exact same way as someone else. that's what makes meeting new people fun.
I hope that makes sense!!! and i hope you feel better about this sort of thing soon. it is really hard to get over. i still struggle with it a lot. it takes time.
Reply by dikky
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hii Arthur,, thanks 4ur reply!! That's alot of words, and honestly I really appreciate the effort you put in it, seeing more than couple of sentences makes me feel seen. I'm reading all that, and like "woww they really wrote all that for me huh?". I can't describe how much it's important to me ’:J
and I also haven't seen iweyv fans much, maybe a few on tiktok, but I've never interacted w one personaly. so it's nice 2find my people here! I hope our fandom will grow bigger (in the best way possible) and it's wouldn't be that rare to meet someone who's into it ^ω^
I can't tell if Im getting better or not for now, but I guess it's just the way it is, like a looong looong journey of figuring out how to think, treat and love yourself. still struggling but I guess later it'll be worth it.
Hope all the struggles you have gunna let u go, soon or not very, we all need this moment to just rest w/o a single worry abt anything. you seem like a nice person, so please treat yourself kindly (*∩ω∩)