I just turned 40 and from what I've seen experienced by my younger friends and family, I'm glad I'm in a solid marriage because I don't think I would want to even dip my toe in the dating pool.
34 and its so hard..it doesnt help that i have social anxiety so all i could date are people online..not to mention im an asian dude whos only mostly attracted to caucasian girls so theres that..
i came to embrace the phrase "welp, it is what it is". so that the level of hope i have left for finding someone.
Swiping worked for me. I met him on Tinder. I will say though…Tinder did me dirty with removing my pictures and verification check. Because some salty people didn’t like that I only wanted to talk to individuals who were looking for long term and didn’t want kids. After about a month and resubmitting my pictures and verification again. I got lucky lol. I recommend Tinder just gotta dig through the trash and watch out for them being shady with removing your shit lol.