For starters I would say I’m average looking person. But whenever I’m snapping a girl it never goes past that cause ion know if they really fw me and I’m really bad at picking up on signals and I feel like if I ask to to hang out or grab sum to eat I feel like i ain’t gonna know what to say and it’s gonna be awkward cause I’m lowk a introverted person and unless I really know you or I’m drunk or high I don’t rlly talk a lot either
Any help is greatly appreciated <3
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i'm an introvert too so I relate with the whole "not being able to talk about stuff or not knowing what to talk about so it feels awkward" thing. Same thing is happening to me, one second I think they like hanging out with me and the other, I think they don't like me like I like them. But you have to just do it. Ask them to hang out even if you feel like it's going to be awkward and no one is going to talk. I've been hanging out with people a lot more than I used to and it makes me feel really good so I swear it's worth it. At least try, even if it doesn't go anywhere. If you don't know what to talk about when you meet up, just try and find things you both like. Music, films, tv shows, books, video games, just anything. But if you're putting a lot of effort into a relationship and they don't do it too, just forget it. You'll meet a bunch of people, if one relationship doesn't work, the other one might. What i'm trying to say is that if a person doesn't try in the relationship, you should find someone else that actually appreciates you.
Sorry if this is pretty obvious advice.
I hope this helps and good luck.
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Hey so, as a former girl kisser, and former girl, they love it when you call them sweet names, don't do it out of nowhere though, that's creepy. Once you're friends, you can give them a nickname, especially if they have one for you. listen to what they talk about, give them little things that reminded you of her, its sweet and shows that you care.
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hey im a girl heres some tips!
Play into her interests (sounds super basic but here me out) this is best used when you know she has a certain interest in something. Get her standing about something you have in common. Maybe pick a date thats related to an interest so you have a topic to fall back on.
For example, im rlly into reading, specifically fantasy so maybe instead of a dinner/lunch, you would take her to a bookstore and offer to buy her a few things and maybe pick up a snack as well.
As long as your a good listener, paying attention to her intrests and wanting to get to know her you'll be off to a good start!
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