Hey, I've been job hunting for awhile now. I quit my job this year in January. Personally I never went on a interview when I had my Jobs, one was a referral and automatic job offer....the other was just a automatic offer for a seasonal position. I have deep rooted social anxiety to the point meeting new people and going on interviews both via zoom and physical public. Get me extremely anxious and nervous, I feel like I'm going to crap myself and NO GROUNDING TECHNIQUES HELP IT COMES BACK IN SECONDS. When I'm talking to the interviewer I get so nervous I say "uh" and "umm" almost every answer, I forget important messages I want to convey, or I stutter and slurr my speech to where I talk in circles or mention the same thing but in different ways.
I have 9 months of retail experience, as well as cooking and food preparation. Stores in my area continuously say they're not hiring. And when they are, apparently I don't fit their criteria for working there. I either get told no they're not hiring, No I'm not the perfect fit for the job, or flat out ghosted (yes I call, they won't pick up or the manager is not available)
What are some tips and tricks to get hired in this market today, I know it's rough but it shouldn't be this dang hard to find one. Considering the fact there are still people getting hired on the spot and I can't even make that.