how to talk to women

just talk to her like a normal human lol

as a lesbian, i also get really shy, but because i am also a woman i def have experience talking to other girls. all im saying is that i kind of understand me who struggle with this.

first piece of advise from me is to just be respectful and sort of playful. i promise you most girls dont like that nonchalant stuff, but everyones different. try to match their energy!

i would also say you shouldnt make jokes about their appearance and other things they struggle with. i see this is a common thing guys do, from my experience. also dont start talking to them just because you expect a relationship! really try to get to know her and become friends and maybe then try advancing if you feel like its the right move

honestly i was just gonna say everything that yurilover said lmao

however i think i'd also like add that you should probably just be yourself. i know that's like super generic advice but it's really important. even though trying to put on a different persona in the hopes of impressing a girl might work in rare instances (VERY rare instances), it's mostly never a good idea. if you want to pursue a long term relationship (romantic or platonic), there's only so long you can keep up the lies. 

you might just want to put that energy in listening to what the girl you're trying to talk to is saying and showing her that you're interested in what she has to say. again, standard "treat women how you'd treat another person" stuff

the "Just be yourself!" advice is not going to help you. 

talking to a girl needs to be like talking to anyone else. don't be scared of them, put them on a pedestal above you, or see any kind of rejection as really mattering at all.

If you want a girl's attention, you gotta be fun to talk to. It's the same thing when hanging out with dudes. if you want dude friends, you gotta be able to have fun with em.  

Not gonna act like I understand women, i will fucking never, but if you're nervous, you're probably boring.

tldr; talk to em like dudes?