Hi! So this happened wayyyyy back but its still something i really havent talked to anyone about because its embarrassing. To set the story i was in 6th grade and i was new to my school. The school was a private school and it was smaller so the 6th and 8th graders were combined classes. (20 total kids in all middleschool) Anyways theres this guy hes 6ft, handsome, has nice hair, and was super popular in our small middle school. We became friends and everything was going well. I got his number and i even started to like him a bit. But i was still young for crushes and i was still figuring things out. now fast foward to the story we become really really close friends calling almost every night. (We can call him Ryle. *Not his real name*) He tells me he has thing HUGE crush on this one girl named stella *not real name* I liked him a bit at the time but i didnt say anything because i was happy for him. After telling me that he would not stop TALKING about her. it got annoying but still i said nothing and encouraged the relationship.
ONE DAY everything changes. Were sitting together in a beanbag. (sharing blanket) AND HE STARTS TOUCHING ME DOWN THERE. at first i was shocked because i was like wtf and then i was just awkwarded out and confused. I mean didnt he like Stella???? He would rub my thighs and place my hand on his.. yk. He never slipped his hands under my clothing but it still was super uncomfterable. I would just awkwardly do nothing. Its so embarassing and i feel bad i didnt do anything. I thought if i did i would lose our friendship because we were REALLY good friends. after class is over he pretends nothing happends. LIKE LITERALLY NEVER. i am shocked, confused and weired out. Sure, i liked the guy but did he like stella? Was this his way to say he liked me? what a weird way... (this continued for months)
PART 2:
i start to tell my close friend (Maggy about this. *not real name*)
she tells me what hes doing is wrong. but im too scared to say anything to him. (hes a bit intimidating. also forgot to mention i was in 6th he was in 7th. I was the short girl in the class and hes 6ft! which was tall for me)
You may be asking, did he even like you? What about stella???
THAT GUY STILL LIKED STELLA AND FLIRTED WITH HER CONSTANTLY. this is when it gets crazier. One day i see him doing the same thing to her. I am shocked. He was doing it under a desk. I was sad but in the same time relived because i figured both of us could go tell the teachers together because i was too scared. And when i did ask stella,.... She said no. Girl liked him back...
And thought it was ok for him to do this... (shes in 8th btw)
Eventually what happens in the end is that Maggy tells the teachers. this was really hard for me and i cried a lot but im really happy she did that. Stella denied everything happening to the teachers and the teachers didnt really do anything....
Ryle didnt get in trouble and is now in highschool. I havent seen him since. Any thoughts? Lmk. Any questions? Lmk
Also this is really sensitive info and is hard for me to talk about. please think before you comment anything. Im well aware what he did was wrong and i should of done sm but i was in 6th.
Thank you
*also bad grammer english isnt my first language. i also didnt edit this at all*