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Is closure something you give yourself, or something you get from others?
It took me a while to truly understand this in a real, honest way...but u don’t need closure from other people. Waiting on someone else to give u answers can keep u stuck in that “what if” mindset. And honestly, why give someone that much power over your healing? Most of the time, ur just hoping they’ll say what u want to hear an that is NOT productive, and wasting time from ur healing. Closure doesn’t come from them. It comes from U deciding it’s time to move forward, for YOU!!!!!!!!
Every time I looked for closure in another person I always regretted. I don't like to boost anybody's ego or take the time to find out why they treated me like sh*t. I don't need to understand why you chose to treat me the way you did.
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