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Any asexuals around?

I'm an ace of hearts myself. Been out of the game for awhile now though. Jeez its the biggest pain for me to have to explain to every potential partner what asexuality is. Ive been wanting to try dating again for awhile now but omg i do not want to deal with that annoyance. I've talked with some other people on ace forums before but id love to hear about when ya'll think its best to explain your sexuality and what that means to a potential partner. From what ive read people tend to lean towards right away or after about three dates


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Reply by Amber Nicole

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It's nice to see more asexuals on this site! I'm demisexual myself and always find it hard to bring up the discussion with previous partners. I always find its better to be up front with people at the begining, it saves a lot of heartbreak. 


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Reply by Alexandra Grayson

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I am also ace :)


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Reply by DavidOtisVan

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Michigan US Ace reporting in


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Reply by emotwink96

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hey :-) im grey so kind of close to u guys


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Reply by Junky Punky Patrick

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I'm demisexual so I'm in that realm


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Reply by Mischief Couture

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GangGang


I'm super upfront abt it or else the entire date is them playing games with me trying to sleep with me.

Like, it's just not going to happen. I feel zero nerve response, its nothing personal. 


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Reply by ⛦Gray⛧

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I have been summoned 


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Reply by 𝖘𝖙𝖊𝖕𝖍 🕸️

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i'm demi!! luckily i've only dated good friends so they've always been understanding, plus the lack of attraction didn't apply as we already shared a deep bond~


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Reply by Ashlee Moreno

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I’m ace!! I think I lean more towards aceflux but anyway I came out about a year ago to my husband (we’ve been married for 3 years and been together 10 years in total) and he says he accepts me and loves me regardless but I don’t think he quite understands which is frustrating. 


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Reply by Weenie hut junior

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I’m also ace


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Reply by Lizzy

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Can I meet good friend here WhatsApp me +15022521464


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Reply by Liv

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I’m aceflux :)


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Reply by ChronicMoirail

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Ace here!


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Reply by envy <3

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hiii :) im graysexual,, mostly leaning towards the asexual side of the spectrum. 

sometimes i feel like im broken because i dont desire very many sexual things like the people around me. Does it ever start to feel normal??? i really want some Ace friends,, add and mssg me <3


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Reply by -02-

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ace too ( also aro )


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Reply by Scars

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Hi.. yes I am.. what firends I do hav don't understand... the way I feel I just would like to hav a partner in life... just someone I could trust... someone I could just say any an they get it... the rest I don't even care about... 


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Reply by ♥ Arachne ♥

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IM ACE SCKNSVNVKNS


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Reply by sickpuppy

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I was Ace but not anymore


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Reply by sickpuppy

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I was Ace but not anymore


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Reply by Helena/Angel

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im ace too :p


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Reply by August

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I’m asexual as well !! : D


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Reply by Ben Dover

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Tf is asexual??????


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Reply by Zaza-Wally

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Yoooo an asexual. Well demisexual but on the spectrum


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Reply by Helena/Angel

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Haha I'm asexual too : ) 


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Reply by xenon

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im a sex repulsed asexual


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Reply by amelia :]

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im also asexual !!!


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Reply by newcleardawn

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same with xenon a bit above. sex repulsed, mostly romantic repulsed ace/aro. happy to be where i stand honestly


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Reply by smol_n_yummy

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ace squad rise up <3 I'm so glad that I found a partner that respects my boundaries too!


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Reply by manda

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my fellow aces!!


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Reply by mutedMediator [MM]

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I know how you feel. I'm asexual and demiromantic. Recently I had an experience with someone who I originally thought just wanted to be friends. He soon kept asking to send nudes/ video chat. Every time I said no he acted like he could change my asexuality. It's very stressful.


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Reply by Rose Moon

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I am asexual, married to another asexual^^


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Reply by haley

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i’m also asexual!!


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Reply by sasha

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İ think i also might be asexual, but i still need some time with it :'))


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Reply by ElCaminante

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u not alone, pal!


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Reply by zepar

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i'm asexual and therefore don't get myself involved with people. i tried dating a few times (while still with my current partner, he was very understanding) and every single time it was 'okay' i was asexual until it was decided suddenly it wasn't. not doing that ever again.


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Reply by HELLERLINE

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I'm aroace


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Reply by sadking

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I'm ace, Hi.


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Reply by Petey

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the romantic part of sex is what turns me on. and the pretty sounds and the love for the other person. otherwise i hate sex and find it gross (i know i sound like a little kid saying sex is gross). I enjoy sex a lot but only when its with someone i think is absolutely beautiful inside and out. the emotion and romance is really the only think i want when i have sex, otherwise get your cooties away from me.


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Reply by Richie 🌟

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Asexual and Cupioromantic 👋


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Reply by dizzyyy

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im ace too :3


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Reply by Kymani

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Greysexual ace here! It’s hard out here


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Reply by 𓄹 🧺 𓏲 kittyn soft! ﹆

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im ace too


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Reply by MATT

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i am asexual and demi arromantic :3


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Reply by Kalmia

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aroace here!!!


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Reply by benny

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howdy *waves hi*


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