Rantbout people who i don't understand

I have ocd, autism, adhd, anxiety and am emotionally disregulated severe depression for some bg info

I dislike the people who say 'omg sorry it's just my ocd/adhd'as if they know how it feels. Like, Jessica  (fake name for my aunt btw) you have no idea what it's like to obsessively check doorknobs to make sure they're locked (four times for me) or having the feeling of your own skin or know what it's like to not be able to think straight (maybe cuz im gay /j im childish),a just cuz you like things being neat doesn't mean you have a disorder that effects thousands(millions?) of people. Or Kelsey who likes being edgy by saying she has depression. Idk this girls bg so im not trying to sht on her, but ever since i went to the hospital for my mental heath, she's been basically BRAGGING about having depression, I'm not going  into what she says because it's also quite triggering to me, but you get the point. These two people I've been ranting about also say they have bad adhd which i don't know. Again, idk about Kelsey, but my aunt is always blaming her mess ups on mental disorders that effect many people, and i know for a matter of fact she doesn't have any of the mental disorders i was taking about. Thanks for reading,a this helps of sleep.

Ezra.

Tldr people like blaming stuff on disorders which is kinda dumb