hard time fitting in in the system community

I'm a small 20 yo P-DID system of 7 and i just wanted to share my experience in the system community. I feel like although most ppl on system servers really do have complex dissociative disorders, a lot are exaggerating their symptoms due to peer pressure and desire to fit in ? I know personnally i convinced myself that i was polyfrag, or that i had introjects, because the online system spaces made me feel like those were the only "right" way to be a system. I think this is mostly due to the fact that the majority of ppl on these spaces are very young teenagers who are trying to find their place, so they tend to try and make their disorder look more "fun" as a way to cope. But still i think this is quite regrettable bc it feels like there's only space for one type of system, those being the high count, polyfrag, introject heavy ones. Just to be clear, i absolutely believe that these types of systems exist and they are absolutely valid, but i just feel like they're the only ones we hear about bc they're more "cool" and "sensational to hear about. Anyways i'm really interested in knowing what y'all think about that and if anyone feels the same way. Feel free to argue and debate respectfully in the comments !