I feel the same way. I know I can date, but right now, the effort and emotional energy it takes just feels like too much. I’m someone who dates for the long term, casual flings have never really been my thing, so this whole being lost isn’t a good thing for me. But I believe that when the right person comes along, the time, energy, and effort won’t feel like a burden. It’ll feel worth it. For now I’ll be lost and confused.