okay so i js joined (i need more aroace friends) and i just wanna ask (to make the convo flow) - what made you realize you're aroace/on the aroace spectrum?
for me, it was that i was never really into the idea of sexual intimacy - i figured it out when i was like 14. at first i thought it's just cuz i'm young, so that's why i'm not really into the idea, but growing up i started to realize that it's definitely something wrong with me and not cuz of my age. i realized that i'm aromantic because i was in bunch of relationships with people I never really felt real romantic attraction towards