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I need help I'm in my worst situation ever

Hi :> I need help. So I currently love a boy that likes me back but idk why we're not dating. We talked about it (us) for the first and only time 2 months agos, and we didn't get together because I didn't know if I really wanted it or not, and I wasn't sure about my feelings anymore. PLUSSS, we NEVER talk. And I make efforts to make interactions with him but he's not helping and he never does. And now it's been 2 months we didn't talk about it, when we did so 2 months ago, he told me to think of it and that we'll talk about it after a week. That's not hard to guess that we never talk about that again. And idk what to do because now I really want to get with him but idk, we barely ever talk, and idk if he still likes me or not. This guy is completely transparent you can not know what he thinks. And I want to talk to him about that again but we're both shy asf so we just ignore eachother TwT I can't handle this situation anymoreeee


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Reply by Rye's ルーム

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This is gonna be easier said than done, but you're gonna have to be direct to him about your feelings for him and wanting to date him. From there you can decide whether or not you want to continue trying to be with him or not ヽ(~_~(・_・ )ゝ


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Reply by Mel

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Honestly, I think if he isn't showing much incentive to date you then just drop him. I know it's going to be difficult, but maybe distance yourself from him once you confront him to find out what it is he really wants. And if he still kind of blows you off, that's when you know. You deserve someone that wants to make an effort to date you. Don't lower your standards :)


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Reply by Keyro

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Ty 4 ur replies :> (i didn't see them earlier TwT) Tbh he kinda piss me off because I did EVERYTHING, I tried my best to show him attention etc, to show him that i rlly want him, but he never does anything, he don't respond, whenever he does he sounds like he doesn't gaf, and I'm tired of all of this. I'm just trying to move on now because I think he just don't care about all of that anymore (idk if he ever cared anyways..)


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