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Feeling inferior

Posted by Envy

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I’ve been feeling inferior to others for as long as I can remember. I always compare myself to others,even my closest friends on looks , likeability, grades, clothes. When good things happen to me I feel like I don’t deserve them because let’s be honest. What did I even do to deserve it? I also get really tense around girls, If I sit besides them or infront of them I always feel watched, judged or laughed at. I know that they probably couldn’t care less about me but I still have those thoughts. You know what I mean? Is there anything I could do to improve my situation?


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Reply by GreenWithin

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Honestly? I think it has a lot to do with how you perceive as a person and your self-esteem: and how happy you're with the way you are, too. I'd recommend focusing more on doing stuff you enjoy, like hobbies or talking with people that make you feel comfortable. It's a rough situation for sure, but it's a good opportunity to reconnect with yourself and figure out your identity if you're unsure of the type of person that you currently are.


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Reply by Keysha

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you should try to see yourself in other stop looking at the things you are bad  look at what you good at 

maybe being help by a therapist could help because , sometime the viiew of professional is more honest , and more more than that it could be a problem deeper than just a salf esteem issue 

You are worth your achievement you try your best to have it , and comparee yourself to other peoplle won't help because no one is perfect or better ; Everyone have its own destiny 

Sorry if my english isn't good Im french


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