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I've got my teachers number

Posted by Loselsor

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I’ve liked my teacher for over a year now… I had her for a little longer than a year now and I started to catch feelings for her almost imminently... I've tried REALLY hard to forget about it and get over myself, but the feeling have only increased and gotten more intense. 

I have tried to flirt with her a couple of times and that have resulted in VERY mixed signals from her... I catch her looking at me OFTEN and when I had a singing lesson with her earlier this week, I caught her stutter when I looked in her eyes. I looked up and met her eyes and we stood there looking each other DEEP in the eyes and she STUTTERED then looked away, breaking out eye contact, which is REALLY weird because she is never the one that breaks eye contact... Did I catch her red handed getting nervous when we had, kind of, a moment... 

We have each other's phone numbers and we chat sometimes over private phone numbers. She can send red hearts and she compliments me a lot, not only over text, but in person too!

I don't know why I am writing this here... I think that I just need to get this out of my system...


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Reply by Sneeze

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I advise against starting a student teacher relationship especially if you are a minor and they are an adult, this could be very bad for the both of you


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Reply by Loselsor

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I am 18 years old and the teacher is 33 years old... 

But what do you think if I start something with her after I graduate from school? Or is that still "no-go"...



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Reply by joel

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that is a no go! that can be a horrible power dynamic! im not one for age gaps but if you really wanna shoot your shot do so after youre done with schooling..


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Reply by Jean༄˖°.🍂・₊ ⊹⋆°🕯️

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Don't do it :(

I have a manager at my job who's 29 and when he was trying to date an 18 year old and other coworkers thought it was weird, I'm also 21 and can't even imagine dating anyone younger than 19.


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Reply by esther <3

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girl i understand u 10000% but PLEASE wait till you've graduated!!! don't put yourself in a situation where things could go upside down v quickly for all sorts of reasons if you were caught!! <33


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Reply by yungmilcc

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think about why a 33 year old would be interested in someone still in school.

not bueno. not even for a fling.


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