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Am I done for? Can't even keep a relationship..

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Gosh why is it just so hard to date as a trans masc xeno teen(14 turning 15 in 4 months)? I just want a simple meaningful relationship with a man or anyone just want to listen to my S/O yapping on and off abt random things and just be there on like a call or something and just listening.

I'm the kind of guy that asks you if I'm talking to much after 2-3 words I say but I love listening to others more than talking myself. I prefer long distance relationships over irl ones due to my anxiety could never get a in person one. I also have DID so I'm a system, it isn't even me half the time but mainly me due to being the host.

Maybe my DID is the reason no one really likes me much? I'm such a fun guy to talk to tho maybe I am too boring?


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Idk what you mean by xeno but in all honesty, you are 14 almost 15, you really don't need to be getting into or worried if you'd ever get into relationships. 

Most people that age are dumb. And most people I'm sure don't want online relationships if they can help it. So preferring an online relationship might make people uninterested tbh.

 Also being DID makes things more complicated for anyone who'd want to date you sure but it doesn't mean everyone wouldn't want to. I know I've dated people who were DID, it went fine for a while. Looking at all of these it does seem like it'd be hard for someone to like you or want to date you but it's not impossible. Don't be too overly worried about dating to begin with, you are still just a kid. 


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