In all honesty, it was my personal worst break up, but my partner at the time ended up going back to an old ex, even though both them and I knew, and talked about, that I treated them better, was a better fit personality wise, and wasn't a sociopath like the ex was. They still did it anyways, I felt like crap and broken-hearted for a year and 3 months before I finally started to let things go.
Then they messaged me again, saying that they needed me, and that just got over a miscarriage and was dumped by their old ex.
I... probably for my own sake should've just ignored them but I chose to help them and comfort them. And after they got over it for like 3 weeks they decided to go flirt and date with other people, and at that point I just said no. Goodbye, I don't want to be this with you anymore. It was hard. This whole thing was a big mess, but I'm glad it's all in the past now, and I'm healed from it