any metal and goth band recommendations?

Can't go wrong with any EyeHateGod album

Goth:
Scarlet's Remains - That Was A Lie

Bloody Dead & Sexy - One by One
The Naked and The Dead - Cassandra

Metal:
Vio-Lence - Bodies on Bodies

VENOM - Black Metal
Sodom - Agent Orange

Why not both? Check out The Vision Bleak, Gothic Metal with lyrics focusing generally on horror movies, Lovecraft and all that good stuff. This song is one of my favorites!