Helpp. ╯︿╰

aro/ace isn’t a definite label. Most people think aro/ace is absolutely NO romantic or sexual attraction, but thats actually wrong! It’s little to no attraction. I knew I was aroace before AND after I got into my current relationship:3 whether or not yku get into a relationship, it doesn’t change the fact that you may or may not be aroace. 

Hi. I’m aroace. :)

There’s many labels under the aromantic and asexual umbrellas, and I’d recommend looking into some of them if you believe you might fit one.

Remember, aromantic and asexual are not linear terms. They mean little to none. 

You can still feel some kind of attraction and fall under the spectrum.

You could start by looking into more common identities, such as;

Demi-romantic/sexual

Gray-romantic/sexual

Aro/ace-flux

Oriented aro/ace

Aego-romantic/sexual

Cupio-romantic/sexual

And later you could delve deeper into less common identities such as lilth-romantic/sexual. 

I’m sure you’ll find something that describes you.

Good luck! :D

aroace here ! as the others said, it's a whole spectrum so don't overthink it, just live your relationships the way that seems right to you and you'll figure it out eventually. like, for me being aroace just means that i don't consider that romance or sexual attraction are a specific feeling that you have for only "special people". i have friends that i love a bunch, some of them i kiss, some of them i have (rarely) sx relationships with, but at the end of the day they're just my friends. i don't feel any special way about them that makes them different from my other friends.