I want a nerdy emo bf to listen to demolition lovers with. preferably one who wont abuse me!
I go to shows, my area doesn't have a big scene so I have to drive at least an hour for that stuff.
I know my area has a lot of alt people though, I'm literally in the Bay Area. There's a LOT here. But not as much in my town. I just wanna know where they are? My theory is that they dont go outside lol.
Most emo guys I like are gay (because our community has always been accepting and a safer place to be yourself ect ect) but the ones that aren't I never seem to find as attractive (I like twinks i think? but not even I just like guys who actually put work into their style lol)
Where do the emos hide? the local hot topic isnt doing it, the mall is 30 mins from me so I dont go that often, and when I do i've only seen other alt ppl twice.. I don't want to online date. the only way i'd do that is if they were AT MOST 2 1/2 hours away from me.
(I don't like younger guys, i'm 18, and many emo guys who put work into their style are minors or dont like women from what i've seen)
How did you catch yourself a emo? where do you think I could try?
unfortunately i also have no clue how to find anyone 