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I will probably never experience teenage romance.

As a closeted trans boy I will probably never have a teenage love, since I only attract men and I wouldn't have any problem with that if they didn't come to me thinking I'm a girl, I'm one of those people who without a relationship feel an emptiness in inside so it's quite hard for me to put all this through my head, I've only had one boyfriend in my life who knew about this, but we're no longer together.


It's quite hard for me, although I wouldn't mind having a boyfriend online but it would probably be a hard thing, it's not like anyone would notice me either.


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Reply by chunky rat

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I dont think it's too important to get wrapped up in the idea of teenage love tbh. Sure we all want it, but it's not a guaranteed thing sadly. We're both young, we have time, and anything could happen. I think you probably won't find many people IRL, I think you should probably look for people who would accept you (so mostly online ) but it still shouldn't discourage you. We're all deserving of love, you just gotta believe you are too <3


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Reply by Kat :P

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It's definitely possible! Buy honestly id say don't get too upset over not having it, I understand that's hard to do but must of them don't work out or the person ( or sometimes you) just aren't mature enough to handle a long term or serious relationship, if thats what your looking for. Casual dating would be a lot easier for you, but remember to be safe


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Reply by ✮ Janek ✮

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speaking from experience, its probably better for you. I got attached to one girl who influenced my development so much (in a not very positive way). I think id rather just spend my teenage years growing up with my own rules rather than being dependend on other person whos as immature as i am 


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Reply by Nivonium

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I wish I seen this sooner, because I wouldn't mind being your boyfriend... I hope you see this.


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Reply by Angeal

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guys thanks for all the replys i love yall really


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