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How do people even get into relationships? I don't know if it's just a me thing or what, but there's no one who's open to dating that's even half-way an interesting person anymore. But I still like want to have something with someone, I still want that feeling. I just don't get how it's possible or how people even go about starting a relationship, especially when young (I'm 17)
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Reply by zZztyn +*.
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bae idk also. i get what u feel though. sometimes i do think that its just one of the peer pressures since my friends irl mostly r in a relationships. what we feel its act vv common in this age of nearing pre adult but really its not a big concern i must assure you. theres a long way to go and you sure aint missing anything yet ! young lovers might look cool and all but as someone with bad experiences i highly not recommend it. my past lovers aint that bad but we are js too young to even be in relationship. it needs more cooperation and understanding to begin with and while we dealing with our own issues since we tend to need to look out on our partner at the same time. its handy and tricky. this didnt include with the after effects of break ups and havin your heart broken. besides feeling like the person who u cherish and love dearly go its also feel like having ur closest friend who knew and understands you drift away. it sounds cliche i swear it does but when i finally faced it lord knows why i start to reflect myself as a whole being HAHAH it js did bad to me and add more issues. so if youre wondering whats its like, i wld say that its better to stick with crushes and left untold HSHS relationships can wait until you fully ready and mature enough to handle. u dont hv to pressure yourself to force urself into one js to feel it infact u able to gain the similar affection from ur friends, platonic love. friendships r more worth it <3
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Reply by 4ng3l_r4ts
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It's hard and complicated, especially at this tender age. It might feel like peer pressure, but there's nothing wrong with yearning for it. Afterall, we all are just exploring life. I'm sure the right one will come, there's no need to stress over It. Meanwhile just enjoy your life the best you can. 🫶
Reply by Nez_z0zZz
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I had the same problem for quite some time and I was even desperate at one point, however the turning point was when I stopped looking for a relationship or a partner and just let myself be and that's when things fell in their place and now am with someone who truly loves me for who I am! :))
I get it, it can get triggering and annoying at times when people say that "Everything comes at the right place, at the right time" or "Love comes when you least expect it", but unfortunately or not - it's true. So when all this time when people were telling me to focus on my own thing - they were right. I wish you all luck, don't give up hope!