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I mean I’m just scared of rejection but still love is hard for me because boys are just rude and selfish (the ones I’ve dated) and they make me feel like the problem when I try making it up to them..I need advice
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Why is love so hard?☹️
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Reply by bloom1
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I think you are just looking in all of the wrong places.
This has happened to me not only through romantic relations/crushes, but my friends as well - someone I had liked or trusted had turned out to be selfish, manipulating and gaslighting.
The best thing you could do about that is cut ties with people who are harming you.
Then, I would advise you to improve on yourself for a little while, build your own standards and make sure you have your friends to guide you, whether it be me, some random on the internet or your close real life friends.
Once you become the best version of yourself will you attract a person who likes you for you in a way. Who would do anything for you. Its all about building standards/confidence really.
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Reply by Wish3d0ut
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It is hard....
I dated a girl I met in class for a year and about 5-6 months. She cheated and tried to cover it up. She tried to cover it up but she dumped me the next day after I forgave her. She lied about me saying I lost my phone on purpose, BUT I had ADHD and lost stuff easily. She also lied about me not being able to go to a dance because I was so sick if I moved a lil in bed MY BODY STINGED Esp my head.
She really broke my heart :_(