Advice to get a goth girl…?

I don't dress goth anymore, but I used to, I only stopped because it was making me depressed but that's besides the point. As an (ex) goth girl, usually we would prefer a guy who is also alternative, maybe a metal head, another goth, or maybe a punk. Alt people (usually) also like alt people, so you should look into some alt clothing styles, hair styles, and maybe even get some piercings. Another thing is to not be a poser. If you want to date a goth girl, you are going to want to listen to goth music, or other alternative music. Don't just dress alternative, actually be alternative, that way you have more in common with her. Finally, and I can't stress this enough, don't always expect her to look like a 'goth vampire mommy' 100% of the time. Goth make up and clothing takes A LOT of time and effort to put on every singe day, so there's gonna be days where she doesn't feel like it and might dress more 'basic'. To find some places where a 'Goth girl' might be, try music shops, thrift stores, the mall (specifically in Specer's and Hot Topics), goth night clubs (those exist, if your old enough to visit one and you have one near you, try there), and honestly just anywhere. I've seen alternative people many times in public, even at places like Walmart, you just gotta keep an eye out. And if your wondering how to talk to them, just treat them like anyone else. There's no point in gawking or staring at them, just be polite and try and have a conversation. That's about all I have, good luck dude.

Im Codi and im 17. Ive been told that im goth and emo soooo many times. if u would wanna be in a google meet with me i can give u my email?

Im 16.Im goth i guess but more on the skater side hit me up whenever

Just beg lil bro ToT

how to get a goth girl:

1) stop romanticizing goth culture to the point of desperation

2) dont assume every goth girl is into the same stuff

3) dont be sexist

4) dont be abusive

5) have goth ideologies

6) dont look to the internet to get advice for dating someone based soley on subculture

first are you looking for actual goth girls or, tik tok goth, or just emo. only cause you could say one thing human something entirely. i’m kinda emo but more just blatantly alt and most alternative or anyone in that culture would typically prefer another alt person (but obviously it’s not the same for everyone) like for example i don’t really care im into guys and girls of any style even if i do prefer alt. but you need to just make sure you aren’t doing some fetish thing because alternative girls are so used to being used as just somebody’s fantasy! :3 i suggest just messaging people you find attractive and pretend ur talking to a friend. i’ve gotten pretty good at it but if you need any help lmk!!!

first are you looking for actual goth girls or, tik tok goth, or just emo. only cause you could say one thing human something entirely. i’m kinda emo but more just blatantly alt and most alternative or anyone in that culture would typically prefer another alt person (but obviously it’s not the same for everyone) like for example i don’t really care im into guys and girls of any style even if i do prefer alt. but you need to just make sure you aren’t doing some fetish thing because alternative girls are so used to being used as just somebody’s fantasy! :3 i suggest just messaging people you find attractive and pretend ur talking to a friend. i’ve gotten pretty good at it but if you need any help lmk!!!

first are you looking for actual goth girls or, tik tok goth, or just emo. only cause you could say one thing human something entirely. i’m kinda emo but more just blatantly alt and most alternative or anyone in that culture would typically prefer another alt person (but obviously it’s not the same for everyone) like for example i don’t really care im into guys and girls of any style even if i do prefer alt. but you need to just make sure you aren’t doing some fetish thing because alternative girls are so used to being used as just somebody’s fantasy! :3 i suggest just messaging people you find attractive and pretend ur talking to a friend. i’ve gotten pretty good at it but if you need any help lmk!!!