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Mosh pit etiquette?

Posted by Gary

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ok so I'm going to a screamo show in a couple weeks and I'm very new to shows like that. My last one I was awkwardly outside of the extremely small pit the whole time. It looks fun I wanted to join in but I didn't want to make myself look like an idiot by breaking some unspoken rule, I know that sounds incredibly stupid but you know what none of my friends know about my spacehey so I don't give a shit.
I WANT TO DO BETTER THIS TIME! so could someone be so kind as to speak those unspoken rules because I know they exist lol.


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Reply by Alko

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dont throw up, stop when someone falls over duh, push and get pushed around, try not hitting anyone too hard, dont start fights, dont take people outside the mosh pit into it. mosh pits dont really have actual rules and for sure wouldnt call it etiquette, simply just dont be an asshole


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Reply by cl0wn

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For the most part, if you just take your queue from those around you then you should be fine. But pointers you asked for so pointers I'll give.

1. No karate in the pit. A mosh is not a brawl, push and shove but dont punch, kick or otherwise hit people.

2. If you see someone fall down, stop and pick them up.

3. Dont try to drag people into the pit, if they dont want to mosh then that's their choice. Also try not to actively bump into people outside of the pit (obviously in a crowded venue this can sometimes not be avoided but you should still try to be aware of your surroundings)


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Reply by ale

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1) have fun

2) give your phone/necklace to someone you know so they don't break

3) dont hit people, it ruins the pit

4) push everyone in the pit

5) pick up the persons who fall


and i dont think i forgot anything


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Reply by C0rvu5

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It varies depending on the music genre and is quite subjective. For instance, when I was younger, moshing was all about aggressive pushing and slamming into each other, especially since I was into crust punk, punk, death metal, and metal(all kinds/thrash). There was this "unspoken rule" that if you fell or got hurt, it was your own responsibility. Sometimes, it can be unpredictable—you might get shoved and find yourself on the ground, or in worse cases, you could get injured. I remember my first time in the pit; I ended up with a broken nose when I didn't see a big guy's arm coming down on me. To this day, my nose is still crooked, but I like to think it adds character! Each sub-genre seems to have its own preferred style, whether it's dancing in a circle, everyone moving together, or getting more aggressive. Because of this variety, it's difficult to establish a set of rules. It's best to observe how people react during the first song to gauge the vibe of the show and then add your own style. If you're looking for distinct characteristics, they definitely relate to the music; for example, a New Found Glory show is vastly different from a set featuring death metal bands. Each has its own unique approach to the pit, paying its own "homage" to the experience.

Ultimately, it’s up to you, as everyone generally agrees that the safety of others shouldn't be completely jeopardized. It’s frustrating when a show gets ruined by crass individuals who cause problems, especially when you've been eagerly waiting for the performance to unfold.

 Been to many shows and man is each one so different. 


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