hai there! (〃´𓎟`〃) super happy to see another baby gal looking for advice, so heres some i can give you
music - So, from what I've seen I dont think theres a specific type of music that gyarus listen to, as it isn't really a music based genre. So, with that being said don't be afraid to listen to whatever you want as it doesn't make you any less of a gal!! ◝(ᵔᗜᵔ)◜
clothing - For clothing I would recommend you look at second hand shops like depop, thrift stores, Mercari, n even amazon would be a nice place to start! These are the "cheaper" options since actual gyarus brands are a bit pricier but if you're fine with that then some that you check out are Liz Lisa, Emoda, Cecil McBee, & Alba Rose! There are more, but those are just the ones I know from the top of my head..(ᵕ•_•) I hope this helps, good luck on your journey!! ദ്ദി(ᵔᗜᵔ)