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how do i stop fucking up relationships?

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i cant even keep a relationship for more than 3 months and idek what to do because I do want to but I just cant handle it, I'm afraid to even have a crush on any1 because ik ill end up fucking things up 


Edit: thanks to everyone who replied omg, I have been offline for a while and didn't see the nice comments you guys made, tysm, I'm trying to improve myself, I have a bf now and were trying to have a slow steady relationship and I'm doing better than I was before, thanks to everyone who replied and gave me advice I will take it into account, 

-love yall

Edit: its been a long time, i have a bf now and its the best and healthiest relationship ive ever had, we are both working together aswell as working on ourselves as individuals, im learning how to manage a healthy relationship and how to keep it that way, and i can say ive never felt this good with someone, still thanks to everyone wbo gave me tips i will be keeping them in mind


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Reply by -ˋ ୭ೃ 88ANGEL. ౨𝜚 ˊ-

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try harder to not fuck it up and believe in urself and u will do it!ദ്ദി ˉ͈̀꒳ˉ͈́ )✧


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Reply by rei

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honestly, i relate to this so much but honestly i think you should take some time for yourself and focus on what you can do to improve your relationship/s! (i'm bad at advice but i hope this helps!)


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Reply by Bright Stars

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You're still a kid. You'll get better at keeping relationships the more you mature and grow up


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Reply by yeppie

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i would try and give advice but i am shit at it so i guess just like try not to fuck it up?


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Reply by yeppie

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i would try and give advice but i am shit at it so i guess just like try not to fuck it up?


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Reply by https://alec.com

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hey man don’t be so harsh on yourself, we r all js growing people who don’t know what we’re doing. on a serious note though, i think you might need to spend a little more time thinking about yourself for a bit and taking care of yourself instead of everyone else. once you can manage to take care of yourself emotionally and physically it will be much easier to handle a relationship with someone else. also it’s important that you both communicate your boundaries in a realationship right off the bat, you can’t read eachothers minds so if they don’t tell you your doing something wrong, you might not know until it’s to late. and last but not least, make sure the person your talking to is a good person and somone you know you will get along with before hand. it can be hard to tell but id just make sure to pick your friends carefully and make sure you know their intentions and who they are as a person before you really start to form a relationship with them. Hope this helped!!


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Reply by Broshua

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be strong, you learn from every mistake


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Reply by convivial2000

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hey <3

i'm late as shit, but now as an adult and still learning, ill tell you its not your fault entirely. dont be so hard on yourself. im not sure how old you are but either way you still have a lot of room to grow. personally i think trying to understand communication and how you are as a person would definitely help you. loving yourself is important too, never love someone else before loving yourself. try to keep learning and dont push yourself down because of any mistakes, you got this. just do your best, because nobody is perfect.


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Reply by Em0Jay_Evrr666

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honestly, if you don't feel good enough to be in one, don't be in one, saves a lot of ppl time and mental health lmao

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Reply by Sam-Sung

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yo lowkey iv been drifting from my friends too cus of shit happining at home but damn they get pissed cus i look hella depressed but i dont tell em considering that i have before and they told me there was not much i could do about it, and kinda brushed it off. idk im also fucking up my relationships cus i suck at communicating so..


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Reply by Sam-Sung

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yo lowkey iv been drifting from my friends too cus of shit happining at home but damn they get pissed cus i look hella depressed but i dont tell em considering that i have before and they told me there was not much i could do about it, and kinda brushed it off. idk im also fucking up my relationships cus i suck at communicating so..


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